Suppose to have gone away with my other half last weekend, he rang me friday to say that he had left the phone at home and he would call me later to discuss where we should go. He never rang we are now on Tuesday and I still have not heard nothing from him and the phone that I have to contact him on is switched off. I know he has a work phone but I dont know the number too that. I don't know what to think, he still has alot of dealings with his ex girlfirend as they are selling there house they once lived in. I can't help but think that maybe he is with her.
2006-10-31 08:13:57 · 14 answers · asked by peach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh he is seriously messing you around.
Don't stand for it. Regardless of the ex-girlfriend situation, it is completely rude of him to make plans with you to go away, then make up some feeble excuse about his phone. And the ex-girlfriend Im sure makes the situation even worse.
The fact that his phone is switched off is (I think) him being a coward.
Instead of telling you he didn't want to go or couldn't go away (whatever the reason) he has taken the cowards way out and now can't face you. Quite rightly.
It must be very difficult for you, but you really shouldn't let anyone treat you like this. I think you should turn your phone off! If he has a really good genuine reason for behaving like such a **** then let him come and find you and apologise for his behaviour.
This man is ignorant. Give him a dose of his own medicine!
2006-10-31 08:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Caroline 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he dumped you. It happens to the best of us...at some point. And if that's the case, don't let him know how much it hurts. That won't help. His inconsiderate behavior is not likely to suddenly change...so unless you learn soon that he was hit by a bus over the weekend you have enough information to figure it out. He may be with his ex-girlfriend, he may be with another girl, and he may also be hanging out with his buddies...in any event he blew you off for the weekend. Why tolerate such behavior? You deserve much better. If you don't value yourself no one else will. Good Luck making better decisions. Live & Learn
2006-10-31 16:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if you go 2 or more days without talking to your guy, there is trouble lurking. Dont try to contact him and blow him off when he does try to contact you. Unfortunetly, you will have to play the game. He might be keeping you on the back burner just in case things with his ex dont go the way he planned. Dont settle for second best. Find a guy out there that appreciates you. They are out there somewhere, lol... Good Luck :)
2006-10-31 16:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by colleen b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably right, he's gone away with her. It's a ploy that he has left his phone behind and very conveniant. If he was on the level he would give you a contact number and phoned you later.
Dump him before you get hurt.
2006-10-31 16:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by tucksie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do some detective work. When he does call, play it off like it's no big deal. Be like I went out with the girls when you didn't call. let him think about that. Then, start trying to find things out on the sly.
2006-10-31 16:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be May be not. It is either of the two.
May I suggest a hot bath with aromatic candles and a French L'aMonsure D'elselaro Wine?
2006-10-31 16:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. It is the darn phone company's fault. They just don't understand that men don't know how to use them when responsibility calls
I would hope you share the story he comes up with when he returns. we are listening with baited breath
2006-10-31 16:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till he contacts you and ask him. get explanations for all the things u are asking us about - where has he been? what happened to your trip together? why'd he turn phone off? etc.
2006-10-31 16:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Elle W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an ar*e. Whatever the reason he should have contacted you at least. I think I'd give him the elbow.
2006-10-31 16:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Katie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly believe he is with her the answer to your deli ma is obvious. But to be sure you need to get in touch with him and see what's up
2006-10-31 16:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋