I want to make her feel good, but since she is older, she most likely knows more then me about everything, inculding sex, so how do I seem "good" to her?
2006-10-31 08:11:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really loves you (which I know she does) then don't worry about all that. Just worry about you guys spending maybe the rest of your lives together. I love you so much and I don't care about all the rest, just being with you!
2006-10-31 09:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you know how to do. If she really cares about you, she'll help you out with the experience part. If you're having sex with her, maybe tell her that it would really turn you on if she could be on top, that way she takes control. Regardless, just don't be too nervous and try the best you can. Moans are a good indication that you're on the right track. If it doesnt go well, you could always ask her sexily how she likes to be touched.
2006-10-31 08:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First , you sound intimidated by her age. You must not feel intimidated that leads to insecurity and nervousness. Those are unattractive traits of a lover. You will be surprised at how you carry yourself in the bedroom goes a long way in how a woman perceives you as a lover. So, let's put on your bravado. Imagine yourself with lover that you were really comfortable with and how you rocked her world...remember the feeling you had...ok, let's roll with that. Are you feeling really confident , almost cocky? Things are not any different due to age, except that she may be able to have multiple orgasms by now...that's a good thing. Listen to her, she'll let you know what's good to her. The more she agrees with what you are doing...do it some more...faster..faster..faster
2006-10-31 08:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by drezach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book from Amazon, they have lots of stuff for getting better at "that" although it's mostly written for men, but they may have stuff for the ladies too, I just never looked. A good book on the subject will tell you what you need to do and help you feel comfortable.
2006-10-31 08:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her show you the way, do what comes naturally and feels good and don't feel you aren't good enough, that can be a bigger turn off than inexperience. How else can you learn if not by the experience of others.
2006-10-31 08:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by minitheminx65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be good because you love her. It doesn't matter if you are more inexperienced than she in fact she might find it arousing. The point is when two people love each other they learn each other and what pleases them. You learn those things together.
2006-10-31 08:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go slow...build up the expectation.. And when you finally get there.. PAY ATTENTION TO THE LITTLE MAN IN THE BOAT!!!!
you will be fine
2006-10-31 08:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to show you what pleases her and try your best to do so! Good luck!
2006-10-31 08:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, just experiment and have fun . .keep communicating . . if she is moer experienced, she should be able to vocalize her desires and lead you.
2006-10-31 08:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she likes
2006-10-31 08:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by hombresteve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋