we have been dating for 2 months now we are official its been a month...she's in college..also she spents time with me i tells me that she really cares about me..everything its going perfectlly. but she wants to go with her girls to a frat party. i never been to one therefore im not sure if they just have fun like any kind of party or she is doing something else PLEASE HELP IM GOING CRAZY..IDK WHAT TO DO?
2006-10-31 08:11:47 · 5 answers · asked by IceMan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all try and focus on your studies. Grammer would be a great place to start. A fraternity party is just like any other party as far as what goes on. If she is doing something else or not, well you would have to ask her about that. All you can do is tell her that it bothers you that she is going, if she still goes then you have to trust her and hope for the best.
2006-10-31 08:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to be upset, especially if you never been to a frat party. First thing, if you trust her don't worry but if it is a fresh new relationship & there is no big obligation, a frat party will destroy that because it is a varity of everything there....Much fun, beer & EVERYTHING....unless she is the quiet type that will stand & watch everyone else but that type is what attracts the frat bums. Look, this is a test if she is good enough for you. If she acts different or never invites you, You know deep down inside what you need to do, she might not be your type.
2006-10-31 16:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you have to trust her until she gives you a reason not to. It sounds like you don't go to the same school she does so what do you expect her to do?!? Sit in her dorm room and pine away for you? It's a nice thought I know, but it isn't practical. Let the girl go out and have a good time. If the tables were turned and you were the one going to a sorority party you would want to be able to go right? Right. As for happenings at a party like that, people are just there to have fun. Yes, there will be some extracurricular activities between a few folks but it isn't an all out orgy like you are thinking. Trust her, tell her you love her and to be safe. Relax all will be fine :)
2006-10-31 16:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think at a fart party you use a lighter to light off your farts. 10 points!
2006-10-31 16:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No u shouldnt b upset
2006-10-31 16:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋