we have been dating for 2 months now we are official its been a month...she's in college..also she spents time with me i tells me that she really cares about me..everything its going perfectlly. but she wants to go with her girls to a frat party. i never been to one therefore im not sure if they just have fun like any kind of party or she is doing something else PLEASE HELP IM GOING CRAZY..IDK WHAT TO DO?
2006-10-31 08:09:56 · 9 answers · asked by IceMan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask if you can come with. If she says no cuz it's girls night out or whatever then let her go. Just make sure she knows that you two are exclusive and that she's not gonna be hangin all over guys. Hopefully you can trust her and if you can't, good thing you are only going out for a few months. All parties are the same, the only difference is how a person acts. Hopefully she'll act the right way. If you need more advice, let me know. Hope I helped and good luck!
2006-11-01 06:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by bcch89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you two have only been dating for a month, so whatever you do, don't tell her that you don't want her to go. Being a college student, I can tell you from experience that frat parties usually include getting drunk and hooking up with people. You also should remember that her girl friends are there to look after her. If you have made a committment to be exclusive, then hopefully she will stay to that. You can let her know that you're jealous that she's going to be partying with other guys, but that you trust her. Tell her to have a good time, and the best of luck to you.
2006-10-31 16:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax it is just a college party with her friends. If you dont' let her go then you are being to possesive and she will go anyway and dump you. I wouldn't worry about it. If she really cares about you then nothing will happen other than a fun night with the girls.
2006-10-31 16:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say yes, she may just be curious. Pay her a surprize visit when she leaves the party. If there is nothing going on and she doesn't want to go again everything is kool. If she wants to go again you have a problem.
2006-10-31 16:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, it's just a party. If you can't trust her to go out with her friends, then that's an issue.
2006-10-31 16:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust her and let her go if she violates your agreement by doing something she should not it's better to know now before you invest too much of yourself
2006-10-31 16:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to one while I was in college and my b/f didn't understand,she is just getting to know everyone on campus,let her go and tell her haqve FUN,the nice kinda fun!
2006-10-31 16:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry if she is in a serority that is supposed to happen. If here friends are whores in your opinion I am sorry but you should be pissed, because who is to say what will happen then.
2006-10-31 16:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant trust her you don't need to be together! And if she is in college what grade are you in? Your grammar and spelling are awful.
2006-10-31 16:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋