I have been on and off with this guy for a few months, i still have feeling for him and everything. Yesterday we got into this huge blow out fight and he tod me not to call or text him again. He texted back the next day and said he wanted to just be friends. I told him friends don't tell thier friends never to call again and i wouldnt call us friends but we could be "buddies". He got mad and started giving me attitude so i told him to shove it up his a**
with the rest of his personality. He started calling me a bi*** and said i was ugly and all ths other stuff. I dunno what to do now cuz i have to to a church tonight for halloween and he will be ther. should i try talking to him cuz we were really close before and I dont want to loose him. HELP!!!
2006-10-31 08:04:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't be his friend. Considering that he called you out of your name and he is acting real childish. You would just be nice. But, you should keep your distance from this guy.
2006-10-31 08:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience when to people are arguing that I lot of their true emotions are coming out. Even if this isn't the case with the two of you, you haven't been together that long and maybe the two of you were just meant to be friends. My suggestion to you is go to church and if he comes up to you just say Hello. If he wants to talk about your fight tell him its not the right time and tell him to call you in a day or two that way each of you can sort out your feelings. I dated some one for 3 years and our relationship ended badly and we were good friends before we started dating. It took about 6 months for us to actually talk again without fighting, but we are even closer now and that happened 8 years ago.
2006-10-31 16:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by poker_213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have all said things out of anger but he disrespected you. That is not acceptable. If you are true friends you should be able to argue today and be okay tomorrow. Sounds like you will still move in some of the same circles so you may just want to give each other some time and space to cool down and figure out if the friendship is worth salvaging. Sometimes you have to agree to disagree about certain things.
2006-10-31 16:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And then there was the line about having to go to church. You two can't get along and you both have filthy mouths. Neither one of you need the other for a friend or a buddy. It's over. Move on. And ask your minister or pastor how to control your language.
2006-10-31 16:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't talk to him! I'm serious. He has to make the first move. He may still be steamy from the argument so you wouldn't want to piss him off even more. Then the relationship would be doomed even more. Just wait. I know its hard, but be patient. Things will eventually blow over. And if they don't, then maybe it wasn't really worth it?
2006-10-31 16:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by Pursue Happiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an unhealthy relationship. If you do want to be friends with him then I think you both need to sit down and talk it out with out the curse words or yelling. If you can't compromise something then you should each go your own ways.
2006-10-31 16:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes talk to him it sounds like a very heated argument and u both said some hurtful things just tell him that your sorry and hopefully he will say the same good luck and take care
2006-10-31 16:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say this once. Since you have slept with him in bed he has already found you unfavorable for many reasons. I would suggest to drop that bum and kick him to the curb and revaluate your circumstances as to what turned him off about you!!!
2006-10-31 16:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him that you didn't mean everything you said. and that you just can't be friends with him cause you love him to much.. and you will she that you cause are going to be back together if that is what you really want
2006-10-31 16:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN TO THIS WATCH HIS EYES REAL CLOSE BUT DON'T BE OBVIOUS AND SEE IF HE LOOKS AT U. IF HE DOES WALK UP TO HIM AT THE END OF CHURCH AND IF HE DON'T SAY NOTIN THEN TELL HIM "U KNOW I REALLY CARE ABOUT U" AND WALK AWAY. . . .KEEP HIM THINKING AND IF HE TALK TO U TALK BACK AND FOLLOW UR HEART !!!!!
2006-10-31 16:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋