She put us on a week break without calling or talking to each other... She just told me that we are best broken up. She loves me, but doesn't see us together in the future... What should I do... I love her so much and really cant lose her... I am so tempted to call you, but trying not too.... I know what the outcome will be over this "break"...
2006-10-31 08:03:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well .. try calling. Sometimes we say we don't want to talk to you only to see if you'll call or not .. it sounds crazy but we're that way. If I was in your situation I would ask her why is it that she doesn't see herself with you in the future. That way you may be able to find the source of the reason of why you're no longer together. For example, I love my boyfriend to death ... but I really don't see myself with him until the end of times ... why ? we don't have the same interests, goals, or anything. So most of the time i'm afraid that if we were to get married our marriage would fail. Love sometimes is not enough.
2006-10-31 08:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Guagui 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just getting cold feet. She is just using the time to think about your future. She may just be acting like a hardass saying that she loves you but doesnt see a future together just because she is mad at you. You may have done something to get her mad and she is still upset and asked for the break because she wants you to think about it. Or i could be totally wrong and she is probably seeing another guy already and she just told you she loves you but she is a damn liar. Anyway when she is ready she will talk to you. Right now she is just doing some thinking. I think it will be okay to call just to let her know you are still thinking about her. THE other question you should be thinking about is DO YOU THINK YOU HAVE A FUTURE TOGETHER????? If yes try to make her see your point and if not things are best to be left as is.
2006-10-31 16:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by vidamar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buck up. If she asks for a break, that's probably not a good sign. Especially if she doesn't see you together in a future. If she has moved on, she'll let you know. If not, then it might yet work out.
Grab a beer and try to find some negative thoughts to cheer you up.
2006-10-31 16:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by nereid_queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would not treat this as a one week break up, just treat it as a break up and move on. If she cannot see herself with you in the future then unless you can morp into someone else then there is no future with her for you.
2006-10-31 16:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to call her because she said she wants a break, but before she actually makes up her mind she wants to know if you care about her to keep the relationship alive. She's just scared right now, but if you dont act on it now. you will lose her.
2006-10-31 16:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey not to be bitchy but if she doesn't love you like you love her than you don't deserve her. a "break" means shes gonna find someone else or already had and you are out of the pic. so just find someone else too. k good luck
2006-10-31 16:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go sweets: its all you can do! She obviously doesnt want to be with you so move on! Her calling it a break is unfair to you, she should have been more upfront about it, but probably didnt want to hurt your feelings.
2006-10-31 16:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Read your own post. She told you: you have no future with her. Move on.
2006-10-31 16:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not on a break. Your broke up. She's done. The relationship is thru. Move on.
2006-10-31 16:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get off your poon nanny as s and talk to her. ask her why? say youll do better just try to make feel guilty or bad about breakking up with you and that she should just forget the idea.
2006-10-31 16:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋