1)How do i get a girl to notice me. (I'm very shy and haven't had a gf before)
2)How do u ask someone out?
3)Where do u go on a casual date?
KEEP IN MIND I'M VERY SHY AROUND GIRLS!!!
2006-10-31 07:52:04 · 10 answers · asked by Snowboarder91 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1] If you want any girl to notice you, just be yourself until someone becomes interested.
If you want a specific girl to notice you, it's more complicated.
Talk to her randomly or make bold, but not brash statements. Ask questions about her and about what she likes.
Show her what you're good at; why you're unique but not wierd. That's very important. Sometimes you can attract a girl without even trying to - just by being yourself.
Remember, don't try to change yourself into an illusion because if you go out, it will always fade. She will like you for who you are and how you act (even more if she finds you good-looking).
2] From almost all sources you will hear that just finding her alone and not in a mood and just asking her cooly is the best way.
3] Go out for coffee or a basic meal - not for the gusto yet.
Maybe bring her to your house: meet the folks, have a homemade meal (find out what she'd like before hand) and watch a movie. You want her to feel comfortable - like you are hanging out.
I am the same way - shy - but there's plenty of advice and if you're smart, which shuy guy's tend to be, it won't be hard to come up with something!
Best wishes ;)
2006-10-31 08:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by teh_popezorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is it that makes you shy? going to coffie is a good place to have a casual date. If you ask questions you learn more about a person and you learn not to be shy. People like to talk about themselves..... when you ask questions then you can find out common things between the both of you....and it breaks the ice...the thing is what do you ask. Hobbies likes dislikes. and to make it fun ask questions that give you a creative outlook on things like..... If you were an animal what would you be? What is the scariest thing you ever did or want to do? What did you do for fun when you were younger? What was your favorite show then and now? Just ask great questions and you will be amazed at how the conversation will flow....if its any help I used to be shy once upon a time.
2006-10-31 16:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by D K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to try that hard to get notice all you have to do is just be yourself and no matter what that girl shall like you for who you are as person. I would suggest that you get to know her first you know as a friend like getting to know her better. And then when the time is rigth ask her out (when she's alone and not her friends).It's just a simple wanna go out some time.And when you go on a date you can go places like the movies,a fair,or even a nice restraunt. Dude just relax and be calm about this. And if you get rejected don't feel like it's the end of world you still have a great chance with that next girl. But first thing is knowing how to talk to ppl and don't be shy be comfortable in your skin. So i hoped i helped out and i wish you the best of luck.-PINK GIRL
2006-10-31 16:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to go is to talk to her.. U cant be shy.... U have to make that first step in talking to her... call her and have a conversation on the phone first.. that way u can become comfortable with her... after doing this for a few weeks if she likes u back then ask her out. The best place first would be to go to dinner and a movie.. The shyness will fade away.. I promise.. I used to be shy myself.. couldnt look the other person in the eye for nothin..... well good luck to u
2006-10-31 15:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get a girl to notice you by writing her a note. You can ask her out by saying to her "would you like to go out". A great place for a casual date is a picnic in a nice park.
2006-10-31 15:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be neat, not a neat freak, but bathe, get a hair cut, clean out your ears, dirt under your nails, SMELL nice, not over bearing but nice
Iron your clothes
Polish your shoes
Start talking to ALL kinds of people, girls, guys, old people
say 'nice shirt' , or 'cool glasses, where did yo get them?'
To get people to open up
Coompliment them on something normal (nice shirt or you have such a warm smile or that's a pretty necklace)
Ask them about them selves 'where did you buy that?' where didi you grow up? What's you favorite knid of food, Italian or Mexican
Talk a few times to this girl, maybe get a phone number or just ask her to lunch
Easy casual date: shoot pool, you can talk to each other, its okay to lose to her
Don't drink
2006-10-31 15:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by mike c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to every girl you see. First, start talking to shy and quiet girls. they tend to be nice. Just be friendly. And another thing, don't go looking for love, love will find you when the time is right.
2006-10-31 15:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by HOEMYJIZM. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and be yourself. maybe at first tell her you and some friends are going to the movies and ask if she wants to go. the first date with a bunch of your peers is a little more relaxing. If she has a good time at the end of the movie ask her if she wants to go for pizza. then later ask he if you can see her again
2006-10-31 15:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by brighton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her out.
Take her to a movie and dinner. Dinner first.
During a movie you don't talk so it's not that bad.
Really you just need to be yourself and don't worry about getting shot down. There are 1million zillion trillion girls out there.
Good Luck!
2006-10-31 15:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snow is cold.
2006-10-31 15:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋