been in a dating seen for while with the same girl for almost 2 to 3 yrs on and off, "on and off" was'nt me was her...ask her to be boyfriend,girlfriend.....we should wait...went we hang out with friends am one to her too....told her " I LOVE U" and only u and that leave no answer to ma question.. it's also make me question ma self and that take me to the low self-esteem...wat u think?
2006-10-31 07:50:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need an english class...but that's beside the point. But...this girl does not seem to want an exclusive relationship with you and you may need to just accept that. And if that's the case, you'll at least be able to make a choice to either stay with her (with the realization that she doesn't consider you to be a couple) or else move on and find someone that does appreciate your wanting to be her boyfriend. You sound like a really nice guy and would probably make another girl very happy. What not see what else is out there? It might be fun!
2006-10-31 07:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 or 3 years of going out you know you love her so should she should know if she loves you. .She doesnt say she does so i think you have to accept she is not the one for you to marry .It is hard to accept rejection but it is a lesson we all have to learn during our life so to get over your low self esteem find new friends who have more friends etc from these you may find your future wife .Goodluck next time .
2006-10-31 16:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. You have to decide what it is you want from your relationship. If you want it to be just you and her, then you need to make a commitment. If you just want to be chummy, then just be chummy, but don't whine that you can't understand why she doesn't answer you.
2006-10-31 15:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she wants. If she doesn't want to be in a relationship (bf/gf) with you, move on!
2006-10-31 15:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight out.
2006-10-31 15:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by abbylove123186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is not as into you as you are to her.
2006-10-31 15:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to move on sailor, NEXT!
2006-10-31 15:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by mike c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋