Okay my friend was never treated right by the men she had in the past she finally got somebody who Loves her for her but she dont think so cause of the men in from her past
2006-10-31 07:48:12 · 15 answers · asked by neisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might want to beat him to the chase. Now that she has all this insecurity, she does not know how to trust. Which is kind of sad, because not all men are bad. She might have to just learn this time on her own and when she looses the one that treated her right, she might be more careful next time. I know it is hard to trust once you have been hurt, but you have to treat each relationship differently. Until this one gives you a reason to think that he is doing wrong, she should trust him.
2006-10-31 07:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless this guy was one of those guys from her past then she has no reason to compare him to them. I personally think people who want to cheat use their past as an excuse to do so. She really needs to get over the past and concentrate on what she wants in her future
2006-10-31 16:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously has trust issues and she needs to work on that or she will never truly be happy. She will be her own worst enemy. As far as cheating goes - it is wrong no matter what the circumstance - it is cowardly. If a person wants to be promiscuous then the least they could do is be honest about it.
2006-10-31 15:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by valentine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to see a therapist or a counselor. Because past relationships can make you treat good relationships like negative ones. This will help her identify what she has now, and what she doesnt want to lose.
2006-10-31 15:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Neisha, Just cause one or two people did your friend that way, that doen't mean that men are that way, tell her that she cant fall for every man that speaks to her maybe try and get to know that person before she falls for a man that doesn't mean her any good.
2006-10-31 15:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a serious relationship, you should have them sit down in a PUBLIC place and air out their problems. Public being stressed bc if they do it at home, they can be loud, and can lead to violence. Public, you're being forced to behave and think of others. I think that once everything is open and if he doesn't change, dump the loser and go to a man who treats you right.
2006-10-31 15:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy 4 Cats! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it the past guys, then other times their just not ready for a relationship. Girls cheat for stupid reasons sometimes too, who knows.
2006-10-31 15:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who cheats does it because they can - if someone is not treating you right you get out of that relationship.
2006-10-31 15:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT COOL, girls always do the opposite , when a guy loves them they cheat on him , when he treats them bad they stay loyal , so go figure
2006-10-31 15:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be a ho and cheat on someone when you can just break it off with them for not treating you right?! Why stoop to their level? Just end it.
2006-10-31 15:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋