I dont understand why I cant get over him. Yeah i know its pretty sad and everything but its seems like no matter what I do I cant get over him. I try liking other guys that arent afraid to admit that they like me like he is.I try ignoring him. I try to think of things that make me happy so maybe it will take my mind off of him for one second.I have liked this guy for sooo long and I dont wanna spend anymore time on him. But it seems like im stuck.....In the summer I thought I was over him cuz i hadn't seen him at all in summer but then when school started again and saw him it just made all my feelings come back. Im sick of liking him but I dont know how to stop! I seriously think I would be sooo much happier and alot less stressed out if I could just forget about him. I dont know why I cant because I dont even know him that well....its weird....What should I do?
2006-10-31 07:46:08 · 6 answers · asked by luvfades 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like this was your first love.... you wont ever lose those feelings for him.. you wont ever forget him... its not easy to leave those feelings alone but only thing you can do is accept that they are there and really move on...its the hardest thing anyone and everyone goes through so your not alone!!
2006-10-31 07:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm no psychologist, so I can't help much in that area. I can tell you that you cannot live in the past, and it's sad to hear so much time has passed and you haven't accepted things.
As for using other people to get over an ex: never worked for me. If anything, that rebound stuff made me miss my ex more every time I tried that. Plus, it's not really nice to use other people, and you're not going to meet Prince Charming while you are still trying to get over your ex.
You have to learn to be happy with yourself, make friends and develop your own interests so that you start living in the present and begin to set acheivable goals for your future.
The only way you are going to get closure is by moving on and understanding that it's over.
2006-10-31 15:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I sounds like you are making a good effort to get over him but your heart just won't let you. Let 'time' do it's job. These feelings will pass. Do you work out? Join a gym and work out 3 to 4 days a week after school. The physical workout should help. Sounds strange but it really works.
2006-10-31 15:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by eightieschic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sucks but there is nothing you can do. Only time will fix it. Just get busy and take up activities. Be pro active in your life and time will go by faster.
2006-10-31 15:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by jephrodite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the guy, whats the emotional pull that makes you go back there. i'm sure you'll get over him, just think about it and give yourself some space. hope it works for ya
2006-10-31 15:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy 4 Cats! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel it just takes time..
2006-10-31 15:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋