i really love this guy ive been with for over a year and it just seems he doesnt have much interest in me anymore, i dont know if i should even call him today, i feel like when i call him im bothering him or something, should i call him today and ask if i can come over? is that dumb to ask someone that because I think he should ask me to hang out but he never does! help!
2006-10-31 07:37:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you invite him over and talk. Just come out and ask him if he wants to end the relationship. Maybe he is stressed about something. Communication is sooo important in a relationship. Good Luck.
2006-10-31 07:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how much your situation hurts. But, it sounds like he's sending you a message, even if he doesn't have the guts to come out and say it. Have you heard of the book, "He's Just Not That Into You?" It sounds like your b-f could be an example from the book. I think you should just ask him point-blank how he feels--after a year, you deserve someone who can express this to you honestly.
2006-10-31 15:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jess30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to move on. I know, easier said than done. Try not to call him and see if he calls. If not, then that is your sign that he is pulling back from you. It's a sorry way for him to do it but some guys are cowards. When you do talk to him, ask him to atleast give you an explanation for why he is acting the way he is. Good luck!
2006-10-31 15:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Sad Girl yaw been 2gether a year, and he acts like he don't wan to talk, don't call him find something better to do, step your game up don't act so in love (even though you are) you can do something to show him your independent do something that he will know about and that stands out. You'll be surprised how fast he notice and will call to invite you over!!! PS Make sure you look nice~~~
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2006-10-31 15:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Successful1428 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been dating a guy for over a year, it is ok to ask to come over. Communication is the key to any successful relationship. Talk to him and ask him questions. Don't just sit and wonder.
2006-10-31 15:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by happyha31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should try to break up with him... tell him that u think its time to move on and that you feel he doesnt love you anymore and that maybe you should start seeing other people!! and if he says ok... then he doesnt love you anymore , cus hes not willing to put up a fight to keep you.. so its better if you find out now ... rather than when your prego and hes like ... i never loved you!!!
2006-10-31 15:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simple. Call him, and ask him up front if he is interested in you still. Confront the issue so you know and that the sadness will go away.
2006-10-31 15:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U deserve someone who will give you the love and respect you deserve, I am sure there are plenty of guys out there that would like that opportunity
2006-10-31 15:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, stay calm every thing gonna be alright u needd to take him aside and ask him if he loves u
2006-10-31 15:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by GOtSports12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not call him. If he likes you, he should pay attention to you; if not, go find a real man who will pamper and Love you.
2006-10-31 15:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋