if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it.
2006-10-31 07:34:00 · 5 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:-( Sorry to say but it defiantely seems like she still wants to be with him. She thought she wanted to date around and now she realized she made a mistake. Don't get me wrong, she probably really likes you, but she still loves him. She is probably afraid of being alone, so she is staying with you{cuz she still likes you}, until she gets him back. But who knows, I could be wrong. Talk to her about it, just ask if she tried to talk to him and if she lies, you know somethings up, if she tells you the truth, take it from there. If you need more advice, let me know! I hope I helped and good luck!
2006-11-01 05:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by bcch89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To really answer this I would have to ask how is your relationship with her?
You said they broke up for no real reason and she broke it off so maybe she thought they would be better off being friends than being together in a relationship. You should ask her if she has talked to him or tried to talk to him and if she wants to be friends with him, when you ask pay attention to what she says, the look on her face and how she acts that should tell you something and talk about it. Also, so you understand why shes trying to contact him ask her why and without being accusing ask her why she didn't tell you about. She might think you wouldn't like it or understand and thats why she's hiding it.
You also have to think about if you will be ok with them being friends, because if she wants to be and your not ok with it she will continue to hide it and eventually it will create more problems for both of you. Maybe the three of you could do things together as friends and then you would know what was going on, and wouldn't always be wondering about it.
Its better to have a relationship where you can tell your partner everything and not have to hide anything. That way if one or the other has a problem with something it can be discussed and your both on the same page.
Hope this helps
2006-10-31 08:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by slaveboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truely, I believe a man relatively desires and appears for the well ladies. Someone they may be able to continually come residence to and recognize they have got been one hundred% trustworthy toward them. They can continually cross out and (for loss of a larger phrase) get a work of a ss however, that is no longer the whole thing. I believe it comes right down to honesty, love, and friendship.
2016-09-01 05:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seem that she wants to go back to him but she may just want to be friends with him. My ex and I both broke up and yet, we are best friends now. We are actually better that way, although he wants to date me again, I simply won't. Dating with him was hard but, still go to parties, and a whole bunch of fun stuff with him. My boyfriend has no problem with it because he knows I just want to be friends with him. My friend knows that too. And we just hang out and have fun.
2006-10-31 07:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She is not over him.
2. Your'e crazy and obsessive, why are you reading her e-mails and spying on her?
3. You should get married and have lots of kids together.
2006-10-31 07:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by GoPackGo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋