2006-10-31 07:03:15 · 14 answers · asked by church k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He can't because he WON'T. There is a difference. You need to encourage him to try to clear up his warrants and if is working with the courts they may be able to work with him. In the worst case he will have to do his time. He is using you and does not want to be responsible for his own actions. He is choosing this course. I would NOT encourage you to support him.
My husband is in prison due to stupid probation violations and he is serving his time. When he gets home, we will be working together on him finding a job and means of transportation. But my husband knows I will NOT support a capable adult and I will NOT do his work for him. There is a difference between empowering someone and doing the work for them.
My husband knows if he was in prison for a violent crime and not taking actions to correct his mistakes, I would not be with him. He also knows I will help him if I can, but he has to meet me half way.
2006-10-31 07:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm hearing you right; you are saying he has three warrants, can't drive, but has a job, yet doesn't help you pay your bills?
I think you already have the answer to that one. You know that one has nothing to do with the other. You can do badly all by your self.
Love yourself a lot more and let him go. Make a rule for yourself: If a guy can't bring anything tangible into the relationship; you don't need him.
2006-10-31 15:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Charlotte C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like dump the zero and find a hero.
Toss him to the wind my dear. Listen to that old song "50 ways to leave your lover", get yourself all pschyed up and do the deed. The sooner the better. Trust me, this guy is never going to be the guy for you. Once he's in jail he'll cling to you like electrically charged plastic wrap. Lose him now!
2006-10-31 15:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you can do bad all by yourself, let that sorry *** so called man go, you'll get over it and plus you'll have a little change in your pocket, but as long as you stay with him you will continue to pay his way, no woman should have to foot the bill for a sorry a$$ man.
2006-10-31 16:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the court allow people like your boyfriend to drive only to work and back. They have a monitor on the car.
2006-10-31 15:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Taco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take care of his junk.He needs to stand up like a man if he`s going to be one.If he go`s to work one day and not come home you`ll know where he is.Then he`ll be looking for a new job.
2006-10-31 15:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Step 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so what are you complaining about your with him so help him out. you know there are people that will hire to pay cash on the spot ... like constructional, gardening ,, etc now if he doesnt want to look then he's not really interested in creating a serious relationship or a future with you or anyone. sorry that's my opinion
2006-10-31 15:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by SAD NINA... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump the zero and find a hero
2006-10-31 15:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might consider a new boyfriend before he takes u with him
2006-10-31 15:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Brenda S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend, or have this one take care of whatever he is wanted for. You don't need that, do you??
2006-10-31 15:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋