I live with my boyfriend as his two hot roomates. My boyfriend works swing shift so I'm with his roommates at night alone. One of the roommates has openly asked me to sleep with him. I have known him for a long time and don't think he would say anything. I would like to have sex with him - should I???
2006-10-31 07:00:12 · 41 answers · asked by Zoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well lets ask this question, if you were in your boyfriends shoes and had to work different shifts, how would you like it if he slept with other girls.
2006-10-31 07:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not kewl.... When you grow up one day you'll comprehend the fact that there will ALWAYS be someone else out there .... "temptation" is the word for it.... :o)
Being committed is a choice you make.... Sounds like it's a choice your boyfriend has made to be with you.
You can be happily married and still faced with temptation in your lifetime.... It's your choices that allow you to have a fulfilling relationship and avoid and turn away from temptation.
It's all about what you believe in... (and I'm not speaking from a religious perspective)
It would be stupid to sleep with the roommate... Obviously you've made it pretty clear to him that you're "available" to him. Don't deny your own responsibility here...
Think this roommate wants to be your boyfriend? Really think that? I'd put money on the fact that he only wants a piece of booty for the time... How could he possibly respect you?
Get real... with yourself... and definately with your boyfriend and his roommates...
2006-10-31 07:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you are planning on finding another place to live. You can't possibly think that you can have your cake and eat it too. He may not tell but your boyfriend may know and how could you do that to him - he is obviously trying to make a living and trusts you while he is away. Don't betray that trust, you will end up without the boyfriend and without the roommate.
2006-10-31 07:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by brokenheartsyndrome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you WANT to have sex with him go for it, but you need to break up with your boyfriend NOW. For you to even consider having sex with his roommate, you are not serious about this relationship at all. You sound like you don't want to be tied down now anyway so you shouldn't cheat you should become single.
2006-10-31 07:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by roxie2k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to cheat on your boyfriend maybe you shouldn't be with him in the first place. If you want to explore sex with other men you should probably break up with your mate and then go at it. Don't do anything that you'll regret later, if he finds out you could hurt him very badly.
2006-10-31 07:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by bkweeks2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
have the decency to dump your boyfriend first and THEN move out before you do this. You are very selfish. And you'll have to live in the same house with a boyfriend who hates you and wants to kill his friend, too. Is that what you want just because you want to get off...
2006-10-31 07:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask yourself this, if your boyfriend left you in a room on a hot day and there was a cold rootbeer float sitting on the table, could he fault you for sucking it down?
I think you know the answer.
2006-10-31 07:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you seriously asking this? what is it with people asking these questions? god! if you are thinking about cheating you don't even need to be with your boyfriend, you don't even deserve him! just b/c you know the roomie doesn't mean he's goin to keep quiet about it and you are already questioning whether he would by saying you "don't think" he would.
then again if you want to be marked as a cheater and possibly ruin any future you have with your b/f or anyone else for that matter....then by all mean f***k him silly
2006-10-31 07:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if he was in your shoes? Do you think it would be okay if he slept with one of your roomates? Don't do it!! You need to take a cold shower or get some toys.
2006-10-31 07:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, there are so many things wrong with this scenario. first, this friend of your bf's is an ******. you need to tell your bf about the loyalty of this guy ASAP!. and why are you even tempted by this guy?! your bf trusted you enough to leave you with his roomates and you repay him by cheating on him? i don't think you deserve your bf, and if you want to sleep with this guy, then have the decency to break up with your bf first!
2006-10-31 07:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your bf to join in, it also depends on how long you and your man have been together. Say it is a fantasy of your to be with 2 men, see how it goes.
2006-10-31 07:03:18 · answer #11 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋