why do so many men abuse and play women? is sex really the only pleasurable thing they feel?
2006-10-31 06:48:35 · 19 answers · asked by beachgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes they can trick u like they do, but to answer you, the ones i have encountered make me wonder if they do.
2006-10-31 06:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by juicee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men have hearts, just some choose not to use them. No, sex is not the only pleasurable thing, but men think about it about 10 times as often as women do...as for abusive men, don't allow anyone to hit you or abuse you...I know a lot of women are attracted to that bad boy image...but is that really who you want to start a long term relationship with?
2006-10-31 06:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by joey_z40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just a matter of sex...it's more about being selfish (and self-focused). And while it's true that many men 'play women', there are also some awesome guys that care about women too. The trick is to figure out who's who. You'll be fooled a few times maybe, but eventually you'll learn to pick up on the cues and figure out if you're being played.
2006-10-31 06:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do is the way youlet them approach you there is some guys out there that the only thing they look for is someone that makes them feel good and no just sexually also emotional, is the way you let them treat you or what kind of men have you been around, there are some good guys out there and when they ask you for sexx on the first date is nothing wrong to say no if he asks u for a second one he looks for more than just sex, and he never calls youback o well that is what he was looking for ? dou get the message ?
2006-10-31 06:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a blanket statement...not all men are heartless, but yes sex is very pleasurable to them but to women too, trust me men are designed to be this way, but having said that i dont agree with men being abusive to their women, that cannot be justified.
2006-10-31 06:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure some do. Unfortunately, alot of nice guys get hurt by mean and uncareing women and then shut off their feelings to protect themselves aggainst being hurt. It's sad. I've seen this in many men. But I've finally found someone who's heart is a very beautiful thing, and I will do my best to protect it from any hurt, and help him stay his wonderful sweet self.
2006-10-31 06:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men have hearts, they just don't use them.
a lot of men, not all, don't want to mature and grow up when it comes to relationships, they like doing what they want and when they want and getting away with it. they use it as an excuse that 'that's how they are', so much that too many women accept it now like it is and say it is normal.
refusing to be responsible is never normal or acceptable when it costs another person pain and suffering.
2006-10-31 07:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men do this because they never had good relationships with their mother or important females in there life. Other reasons are that it makes men feel powerful. They might seem like they dont care but when they go home, its a whole different story.
2006-10-31 06:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by raelynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. men can't be trusted. they are all players and heartbreakers. they see women as toys. the only solution is to either be aware of it, or play the game too. there are a few ( very few) who have hearts and are good people
2006-10-31 06:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by ~mj~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have hearts . But they are hard to find these days. But I have one. Some guys are jerks and only thinks about themselfs .
2006-10-31 06:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a power , control thing with some men!
2006-10-31 06:51:08 · answer #11 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋