my boyfriend is really loving and sweet when he wants to be. i dont think he is showing enough care and love for me! he gets aggrivated when i say something about it. i dont know what do do. should i leave him alone or try to work it out? i fall easy guys. im in love with him. he says hes in love with me and i belive him but hes the kind of guy that dont really worry about it all the time!
2006-10-31 06:45:58 · 2 answers · asked by britni h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys find it hard to express there feelings! Does he show you he loves you at all??? IF the answer to that question is no... then you might want to move on. But if he does at times then I would say he has trouble expressing his feelings openly... Before I would leave I would discuss this issue with him more openly. If you can't communicate well while you are just dating... then if you'll were to become more serious and get married what makes you think you will communicate better than. Believe me... Good communication between partners is one of the top reasons relationships work out and the one reason they don't! ( In my opinion) Try to help him show his feelings more..... Don't just up and leave... Find out first if this is the reason... but like I said if he shows his feelings somewhat.. then the reason is probably he has problems expressing his feelings.. some men find it hard to do.. guess they think it takes away there manhood or something!
Hope this helps!
Tee
2006-10-31 06:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by sexymama2420052000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you really need to ask yourself, what is it about him that you love. i understnad about falling for a guy easily it happens to me more than i want to admit. if he tells you he loves you, and you still question him, it might be your insecurities that are getting in the way and not the love he has for you.
my bf is always telling me he loves me, which is fine, but i dont always tell him i do. it does not mean that i dont, it is just for me to say those words, the feelings has to be there at that moment. for him it is easier to express it also.
try doing things for youself and not depend on him too much. because you might be smothering him, and that is just as bad as too much love.
2006-10-31 14:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋