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my partner tried to kill him self my father died my nephew died aged 26 all within 8 months

2006-10-31 06:41:47 · 28 answers · asked by krazykath64 1 in Health Mental Health

28 answers

No one knows realy... We'll find out when it's our time...

2006-10-31 06:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Fu Manchu 4 · 0 1

I'm sorry you had so many losses in such a short time. I don't know the answer to your question and I don't know anyone that does. The life before death is all we can know, and making it as good and meaningful as we can while we're here. There's no point in trying to get an overview of what it's all about because it's just speculation. I try to love the people who are important to me and do a bit of good where I can and that makes me feel that my presence here counts for something even if this is all there is. Life is not easy, but it can be really good - a day, or even a moment at a time.
Because of all that you have experienced, you have a lot to offer to people who are in pain, and maybe the opportunity will arise for you to make a differnce in someone else's life. Good luck.

2006-10-31 15:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0 1

you poor thing, sounds like you've been having a sh*t time lately. Personally I don't believe, but who knows? There is no harm in believing in it. Try not to worry too much about it as I know you must miss them but think that honestly they would want you to get on with your life and take care and look after your partner as they are the priority right now. Good luck for the future xx

2006-10-31 14:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Katie G 3 · 0 1

i understand you pain , within 3 yrs i lost 2 aunts , my grandma , grandpa and 2 uncles and on oct 10 i lost my 17 yr old son to brainstem cancer . why things like this happen , i dont know , but i know that my loved ones have gone to heaven and now they are all angels , with my son being the most beautiful.you loved ones are also in heaven and have become angels and sometimes if you really pay attention they will send you messages letting you know they are happy and pain free......god bless you and i hope you find the peace you need.......

2006-10-31 19:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by sindi 5 · 0 1

yes i believe there is. Not as we know it but there is something. I say this because when my Mom was dying I asked her if she would send us a sign that she was ok after she passed. She said yes and i said how will i know. She said she would come back as a Yellow butterfly. Well to make a long story short. THe day she passed away we were out side her house waiting for the minester to come and go over the arrangements. we were talking to a neighbor and there was a butterfly flying all about us. in and out and around and around. after a few minutes of this it was getting anoying. I was ready to say that damm butterfly when i remember our conversation. I hollowed ITs MOm. Everybody stop in sielence. That butterfly was seen at all our homes, sat on my uncles dogs nose and came around for days.
My brother told it on day. "Mom if thats you its we know you ok so you can go now if you want. It flew off. A short time later it was back with a nother butterfly. This one looked the same but had a little blue at the bottom of the wings. We suspect it was my Dad who had past years earlier but she brouth him to us so we knew she was with him and ok. I have pictures of the butterfly when it was in my yard. the wings are so tattered, I didnt think a butterfly lived long after the came out of the cocoon. but this one was around for weeks. We went to a butterfly exibit at our zoo and talked to the curiator and discribed the butterfly to him in great detail. He said ther is no butterfly that fits that discription. MY 5 year old neice hollered. "Yep, thats right cause it was my grandma" I think he thought we were nuts . But i have comfort knowing she made it to the other side and is with my Dad. I know if you thought about it you would see signs from your family members too.
God Bless you.

2006-10-31 14:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by careermom18 5 · 0 1

I'm so sorry for your losses, that sucks...

I don't think there's a chance in hell that there's an after life: we're made of self-replicating molecules cooperating with each other, and when they fail, they simply stop working and that's it; no reason to believe that you'll wake up somewhere else after you die. Sorry, I know that's not very comforting.

2006-10-31 14:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Noodle 3 · 1 1

You have had a lot to deal with, rather than thinking about life after death, try to focus on ways to improve your quality of life before death.
Be kind to yourself and your loved ones.

2006-10-31 17:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Safety First 3 · 0 1

thats awful, but i will add that these awful things always seem to come at once you feel overwhelmed and even feel guilty,
but time is the healer you must get help for your boyfriend and also yourself as this is a lot to cope with
good luck
life after death dont really think it matters

2006-10-31 14:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by cazmo 4 · 0 1

There is life after death.. I'm sorry to hear all this but remember, in my religion they say that God won't give you all this if he knew you couldn't handle it. Pray! Pray! You will find answers. Smile everyday please.Pray!

2006-11-01 07:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0 1

Yes there is, go and speak to a priest and go to Church sometime. Pray or ask someone to pray for God's protection over you, there is such a thing as curses and you can bind it in Jesus' name and asking forgiveness for your sins before you do.

2006-10-31 14:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 0 1

I truly believe there is....try reading some books by Sylvia Browne...she really has some insight on the "other side". God Bless!

2006-10-31 14:50:08 · answer #11 · answered by trivia buff 5 · 0 1

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