2006-10-31 06:08:56 · 6 answers · asked by silvia 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hey I am right there with you brother. My wife is the same way. I have been there for 5 years now and it really bites. I have been really good about trying to be supportive, however I still have needs and I know that sounds bad to everyone, but it's true. She has been told by several relatives and close friends to get help and try to overcome this phobia. She thinks her dead relatives are watching her when we try getting together and she doesn't have any libido at all. Now that's messed up! All I can say is it's a good thing we have porn to turn to in this situation, but my hand is starting to get arthritis in it. Good luck my friend and support her with trying to overcome this, however I believe she will need counseling, as well. Take care!
2006-11-01 12:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that. What is it she is scared of? Does she not like her body? Is she scared of yours? She needs to figure out why she has this problem. has she always been that way? Well if the psychologist isn't helping now then it might not help at all. The only way psychologist can help is if the person wants help...good luck
2006-10-31 14:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. maybe you should start looking for a reason. Find the reason you can solve the problem. She probably isn't afraid of sex, more than likely, she associates it with something horrible. So , find out what it is and help her get over it .. HELP her.. don't condemn her and don't berate her. That is only going to make it worse.
2006-10-31 15:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people with this issue have suffered some childhood trauma. You need to give her time to adjust. Be patient, forcing her will only make it worse. Fighting about it won't help either. Good luck.
2006-10-31 14:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by SCORPIO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a lemon! Send it back!
2006-10-31 14:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should consider its reason i think. talk with her about her phobi and try to help her step by step
2006-10-31 14:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by ellina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋