you are normal. :)
2006-10-31 06:09:57
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answered by Grasshopper 5
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I have the same issues. I think it has to do with trust. Maybe she's done somethign in the past to make you want to know everythign she's up to? It's not thatyou're trying to catch her doing something wrong, you're just trying to prove yourself wrong, right?
It feels alot better when you ask her all those questions and she's saying what you want to hear, right? I don't knwo what else to do with my bf. I tell him whats upw ith me and that I need his help in trusting him, and he says yes okay, and he'll call more often or tell me how his day went for a few days, and then its back to "not caring" mode... lol.
I guess its up to us to put a little faith in them,huh? Maybe they'll prove us wrong.
2006-10-31 14:15:24
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answered by kisme86 3
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JEALOUSY is an aweful quality buddy, i know what you must feel being so insecure.
if she has never given you a reason to be that way then you really need to change, she will leave you, trust me.
the only way to get over this is to let her be herself.
when she goes out, do something to not think of where she is.
avoid sitting at home waiting for her and drilling here with stupid questions.
if she cheats?? she cheats? F her! you atleast know that she wasn't the one! waiting for her to cheat is worse than her cheating.
nevermind that crap about she is my life and i would die without her,
2006-10-31 14:19:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes I do the same thing with my boyfriend. Sometimes I too feel crazy. Did someone cheat on you before or you use to be a player? Does your girlfriend make you feel that you cannot trust her?
I think it probably is normal. But YES i do the same.
2006-10-31 14:12:40
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answered by Angelcupcake 3
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Yes Sir, One the first things you keep on and your going to to lose her. Your are controlling or rather tiring to. A woman hates that more than anything go somewhere and look around there he is peaking around the corner, Every time you are having a good time there he is, you probably check her mileage on her car. You are gonna have hard time finding anybody that likes things like that, they get real disgusted, real fast like. If she goes to store are you looking over the cheese counter at her. WHEW!!!
2006-10-31 14:16:44
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answered by Nicki 6
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Your not normal, more like insecure!!!
I am surprised she has lasted this long with you but no need to worry that will end soon seeing you'll drive her to it! Christ man your not the chicks father and need to know where she is 24/7 especially if she is past the age of consent!!
2006-10-31 14:13:00
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answered by Paul M 3
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Sounds like you are insecure, you are afraid she will find someone "better" or dump you.
The more you are on her case, the more you will push her away. Eventually she might be like "well he already thinks I'm cheating, so I might as well go for it". Give her space, let her breathe, for the sake of your relationship. Chances are she's not cheating.
2006-10-31 14:30:18
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answered by hello 6
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Sounds like you are insecure and have trust issues and you need to work on YOU. You are going to lose her if you can't show her that you trust her.
2006-10-31 14:12:35
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answered by Tamika G 1
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There are some security issues that you need to work through.
2006-10-31 15:17:38
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answered by t j 2
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Your normal, your scared she's going to do something. It's OK, honestly almost everyone is like this. They may not admit it, but trust me they are.
2006-10-31 14:11:21
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answered by angel2005_2001 5
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you are a very insecure person,lighten up or you gonna lose her,you are smothering her for nothing
2006-10-31 14:12:48
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answered by davec4real_02 4
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