Do you think I should call my crush tonight? We hung out Saturday and had a great time, and I have yet to recieve a phone call or a text from him! Would I be too needy or clingy if I called him to see how he is, or if he wants to do anything? (It seems like I'm always the one making it a point to call him and to ask him to hang out!) Is that a bad sign? Shouldn't he be wanting to hang out with me and calling me more if he was interested?? What do you think!?? I should be old enough (23) to not really care about this, however, I really like him.
2006-10-31 06:07:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your always the one to call .then let him call for once just to see if he feels the same way you do ...............good luck
2006-10-31 06:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by mari 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you like him and had a good time, I think you should call him. I used to love it when a girl I liked would call me first. It makes men feel very special. If and when you call him, listen to the tone of his voice. You should be able to tell if he is excited to hear from you. He may even give you an explanation as to why he hasn't called. I would say go for it.
2006-10-31 06:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Test it. Wait a week. Let this week go by and don't call him on the weekend either. Wait. If u don't hear from him all week or the weekend call him on Tuesday. Ask him how was his weekend find out what he did and with whom. Maybe he just wanted to hang with his guy friends or himself. Give it time.
2006-10-31 06:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let it go! Move on! I know, its easier said than done, but if he wants to hang out, he'll call or text you. Plus, its Halloween! Its a party night and it would be like calling somebody on Friday or Saturday to hang out. It would be a weak move to call them. I know it sucks, but just try to deal with it the best you can and find somebody else until he calls.
2006-10-31 06:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by ka250 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he is shy...you can call and just ask if he is going to so & so's party, or that one of your friends asked you to go with them and you were wonderin' if they asked him too. I do think, however, if you always ask and he never does, I would think more about if you really want someone that can't make a decision, or if he really likes you, or is just "being" with you until something better comes along (from his view). Good luck!
2006-10-31 06:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't chase boys, let them chase you. If you've taken the initiative several times before and he hasn't returned the gesture, then you're really are wasting your time. He's not interested or he would've contacted you by now. Move on. If he wants you, he'll let you know.
2006-10-31 06:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is a saying He who cares the least wins. He's showing you no interest and you are chasing. I would say back off and see if he chases you if he does then hopefully for your sake you have something. Good luck!
2006-10-31 06:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some guys need to be smacked across the head with a bat before they wake up and get a clue.
Call him, but keep it funny and light and see what happens.
2006-10-31 06:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Call him if you want, don't call him if you don't want.
And yes, you will look needy and clingy if you always continously calling him. So do it only once in awhile.
2006-10-31 07:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From experience I can tell you with the utmost certainty that although he may enjoy sex with you (if that has occured), but he doesn't like you and won't like you like you like him ever. There needs to be balance in a friendship or relationship of any kind and it seems people are getting lost on the definition of what love/sex & relationships should actually be. Reciprocation is respect, he's not respecting you so respect yourself and move on babygirl. email me if you have any other thoughts. be well.
2006-10-31 06:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just call and see how he is. If he continues not to call in the future then don't call again. If you call to see how he is, then your not being needy, you're just care about him abd just wondering. Everybody does it. Even I do it.
2006-10-31 06:10:44 · answer #11 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋