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I look for about 80% ggood looks in a women and 20% would be a good personality (its rare to find a woman gifted with both)

Do looks appeal as much to women as they do to men, or do they look for something else

2006-10-31 05:58:14 · 20 answers · asked by you dont need to know 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Looks of course appeal to anyone.... But a person with good character can look pretty darn good.... :o)

Sexy in a man is definately one with these qualities:
Honest, Responsible, Funny, Independent, Intelligent, Spontaneous, Compassionate, Respectful....etc...etc...

His looks of course matter but those don't last anyway so it's not something you should put much weight into. Again....if he's such a great catch due to WHO he is...he will definately be attractive to many females! Believe it.....

A guy with good looks and nothing else will get pretty ugly, pretty quickly.... Same goes for wemon..... as I'm sure you've experienced by your comments...

2006-10-31 06:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0 0

Well I am a psychology student and have just finished a study about what people find attractive in a potential partner, it looked at married couples and the attractivness of each partner as rated by other people. Women seem to be much less concerned with physical appearance than men. Sense of humor, similarities in intrests and other things seem to be more important to women...apparently this is becausse sub consicously men focus on attraction because they want someone who is fit and healthy and will have good breeding sucsess! not that i belive thats all their is to it lol!

2006-10-31 14:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by lil_elise89 1 · 1 0

well what most weman look for in a man is about 30% looks and then there is that 10% of a man that knows how to please a woman in bed and the last 60% is personality. by that i mean kindness, weather a man can set and listen to a woman when she has had a bad day or just needs someone to talk to.
and to answer your question to some people looks do matter but to some it is what is on the inside not on the outside.
"you cant judge a book by it's cover, you have to read it first."
which means don't judge a person by what they look like at first glance you have to get to know them first.

2006-10-31 14:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bettyboop 1 · 0 0

Ofcourse. But it depends on the type of person you are.!. It also depends what you're looking for. For example. I go for 80% looks as well as you. and 20% personality. I have to be with a guy that i am attracted too! And the personality has to be good as well. But as you said, you cant always have both!

2006-10-31 14:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well lets put it this way...there has to something you like about the way someone looks.....if you meet in a pub/club....all these goody goodies that say looks aren't important are fibbing...!!! There has to be a physical attraction there first. Saying that, I would give equal ground to looks, sense of humour, the way the person reacts with your friends and personality, sarcasm is funny but downright rude is a massive turn off.

2006-10-31 14:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by minitheminx65 5 · 0 0

I was taught that looks isn't everything,it is what's inside the person that counts,you might get a good looking woman that is cold hearted,lazy,and even evil,but by the same token there are a few who would give you the world and the shirt off their back,same goes with people who don't look that great. it is a 2 way street

2006-10-31 14:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by davec4real_02 4 · 0 0

well, the first thing you see is looks... and if I don't like how he looks I wouldn't be interested getting to know him... If the physical attraction isn't there then, for me, the rest won't matter... so at first, looks are about 90%, 10% is the way he approaches me... but, then if he doesn't have a good personality then forget about it... then personality becomes much more important and if he's a jerk it's done... so, at first looks are important and after that, personality becomes much more important...

2006-10-31 14:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0 0

Most of them want money. Lots of girls could handle an ugly man if he was rich. What does that say about them however?
Look at Anna NIcole Smith, typical Sl*t who went after a man for his money and got it too.

I would suggest that most women think like that.

2006-10-31 14:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0 0

this is what i look for in a guy:

sense of humour
nice smile
blue sparkly eyes
dark/black hair
good and honest personality
loads of hugs and kisses
a sensitive side
casual sense of fashion
a non smoker
a non druggie
a rocker guy-someone from a band or someone who looks like he should be in a band
a nice voice,so can sing to me very sweetly
a good hugger
warm and loving arms to embrace and comfort me

loads of money!!! haha only joking...

2006-10-31 14:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by snow_patrol_lady 4 · 0 0

I don't know what neighborhood that you live in,,,We have a lot of intelligence women in my part of town, with outstanding good looks! Including myself!

To answer your question...I like a Great sense of Humor, The looks are second if he is well kept. (Good hygiene, neat in appearance)

2006-10-31 14:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0 0

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