I have been talking to this guy for 2 months strong. Everyday we get together and we do what we do. Now all of a sudden he does not return my calls nor call me. While we were chiling we both agreed that he was not my man and I was not his girl. We were just friends with benfits. So why the change?
I can't cuss him out (which is what I want to do for just playing me)because he does not answer his phone. Has something happened?
2006-10-31 05:54:54 · 9 answers · asked by Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really cant get to mad at him because you said he was not your man you were not his girl nd you were not in a relationship. So you left your self open for him to do this. You were not played because you agreed to be friends with benifits..
2006-10-31 06:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by omandyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don't think it's possible to "be played" when you're in an open relationship. If he decides to be "friends with benefits" with someone else, what, are you actually going to be mad?
That is, unless you're not being entirely truthful and you have feelings for him, and that's what I'm sensing here.
But throwing that aside, he may have decided he wanted a girl who was going to give him all of her attention, including the emotional side. If that happens and he's somewhat ashamed of what he's been doing, he may not want to talk to you for a while.
It's also possible that he just went to someone brand new -- after all, you two were "just friends", nothing but casual, and he could want a break.
Sorry to say this, but until he picks up his phone, you're stuck for now. Be patient and maybe go hang with some other guys for a while.
2006-10-31 14:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Craig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that honestly the fact is that you were friends with benfits and he got all the benfits that he wanted from you, not trying to be rude so please don't take it like that it's just that if you guys use to talk every day and kick it so to speak then why would he chaged all of a sudden
2006-10-31 14:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you answered your own question. If you both agreed to be "friends with benefits" then you should not feel wronged. I don't know why he's not calling, but perhaps he is spending his time with someone who doesn't want to be with another guy?
2006-10-31 13:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You AGREED to "chill" and that you had no strings...he hasn't changed. You just agreed to something that you obviously did not understand and agreed to be used, (that is what being friends with "benifits" is), until he got tired of you...SURPRISE he is tired of you...if you didn't want this to happen why did YOU agree to it?
2006-10-31 14:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got played and now he has found somebody else and does not need you anymore.
2006-10-31 13:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got the silent treatment cause he found another friend wit bennies
2006-10-31 13:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said that you weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, so how can he be playing you?? he probably has found someone and he wants that relationship to work..you can't be mad at him
2006-10-31 13:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by becca j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's idea was it?
2006-10-31 14:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋