My girlfriend has a lot of other guy friends and she meets them one-on-one for coffee etc. quite often.Does that mean she's not really interested in me?
2006-10-31 05:52:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesnt necessarily means shes not into you, it could just mean she wants to spend more time with her friends. I personally get along better with guys than i do my girl friends. Its totally normal.
2006-10-31 05:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by soccergal22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean that she's not interested. She may actually be faithful to you and the whole 9, but she's still not ready to give up that certain freedom she's had. People who can't committ 100% usually keep a lot of friends of the opposite sex, I should know.
2006-10-31 05:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by cinnamon_latin_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all -- assuming she's spending more time with you than with them.
Women generally treat friendships with the opposite sex much differently than men do -- women are quite able to be "just friends" with men without "feelings" involved. Men in contrast aren't nearly as likely to persue a "just friends" relationship.
So long as she's spending most of her time with you, I wouldn't worry about it. Besides, she can get good advice from guy friends. You may even want to suggest you all meet up for something sometime.
If she's spending more time with them than with you though, that's something to talk about.
2006-10-31 05:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Craig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you have to ask why she doesnt have a lot of girlfriends.
1) Would she be jealous or insecure if you had the same relationships with your friends that are girls as she does w/ her guy friends?
My ex used to basically hate women. She thought they were all b!tches and men were all dogs. But she hung out wit' da fellas, sort-to-speak more than she hung out witht he girls. But if one girl so much as looked my way, she would get jealous and insecure and fault me. So Im left wondering why she cannot form healthy relationships with women and why is she rather choosingthe company of men rather than her girlfriends.
2006-10-31 05:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not necessarily. She may just make guy friends better then girl friends.. I personally cannot make girl friends I hate the whinny b****es they turn into. All but like 2 of my friends are guys. My boyfriend understands thats just the personallity I have. It took him a while. But he trusts me and you should trust her unless you have reason not to.
2006-10-31 05:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 01:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by daw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay girls are always going to have guy friends. myself i have alot of guy friends and like hanging out with them,but of course my boyfriend gets mad/confused but i let him know that i love him and that i won't ever do anything that will hurt him. Ask her if u have anything to worry about she should tell u the truth if she really loves u.
2006-10-31 05:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her... She should invite you to at least meet them... Maybe you can become a part of her "cool kids club"
Maybe she grew up with guys... I did. Maybe she feels more comfortable around men. For your sake, hope they're all gay.
2006-10-31 05:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
means she has friends so dont get over stupid here OK she isnt sleeping with the enemy ya know shes drinking coffee OK
2006-10-31 05:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by yahoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may like you. Dump her if you find her style annoying. She's a high risk. I've dated a few and odds are she'll move on.
2006-10-31 05:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋