i've been out with a guy for 3 weeks now, only last saturday while we were in a club he kissed me for the 1st time, we spent the whole night out holding hands and huging each other. i met him yesterday and to make sure he ment kissing me when i 1st met him i tried to just shake hands with him thinking maybe he was abit light headed on that night, but he moved close and kissed me on lips again. and just like the other night, we spent the whole night kissing and huging, BUT THE CONFUTIING PART IS that he never told me he likes me and i never did too, so now im confuced of" DOES HE LIKE ME, IF SO WHY HE DOESNT TELL ME??
isnt 2 weeks of going out and kissing, huging enough to say i like you???
2006-10-31 05:51:18 · 33 answers · asked by emely A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's waiting on you to tell him first. Men are Puzzies.
2006-10-31 05:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I dont think he should tell you, You should already know by the way he kisses you and looks at you. I think that if he didnt like you, first of all it wouldnt have past the first date and he wouldnt have kissed you (more than once?). Dont dwell too much on this - forget about it. He likes you. and I dont think someone should be able to tell you "I like you" in order for you to know it. He likes action instead of just telling you a million times, I think its sweet because when he does tell you, you will notice and you will be touched (emotionally!)
2006-10-31 05:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isnt 2 weeks of going out and kissing, huging enough to say i like you???
You would think so,
If you like him, tell him so. if he skirts around responding then he is either extremely shy or using you for the physical feelings he gets kissing you. Sometimes us guys are just plain stupid when it comes to telling someone we like how we feel. We would rather just show it. and of course We Are Physical.
2006-10-31 05:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen i dont know this fella @ all but. I,d say that he AS THE HOTS FOR YOU!!
He may be a bit shy, or may not want to say that he has feelings for you...... but sooner or later one of you WILL say it & then the flood gates will open.
At least he didnt try & get in your knickers on the 1st night then dump you!!
Dont rush it JUST ENJOY the hugs & kisses.
Good Luck
2006-10-31 05:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeither continue with the non verbal approach (which seems to be working) and step it up physically, or, sit him down and ask him where he's headed with this. I think he'll like number one better, but you sound like you need resolution. ask him if you guys are dating? lightly, just, "hey in all this necking and hanging I forget, did we ask each other out? or is this just friends having a bit of fun?" keep it non-judgemental and accept his answer without throwing guilt at him. if you dont like his answer you can simply say, "well I thought it was {insert your version here} and I do not want to continue as you see it." not an answer for happiness but for clarity.
2006-10-31 05:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Myrrhder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn;t kiss and hug a bloke I didn't like but then again I'm not a man. He probably does like you but maybe he is shy about saying so. Why don't you say it first - a lot of men are shy when it comes to words much prefering to show their love through actions!!!!
2006-10-31 05:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by Katie G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every heard of the old saying "actions speak louder than words"? Well, that applies here.......He said it, you just were not listening, or listening in the wrong way
2006-10-31 05:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you never heard that actions speak louder than words?
2006-10-31 13:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on your age - if you are young teenagers - then I guess he could just be testing the water - if older - he likes you for sure - enjoy it!
2006-10-31 06:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions definitely speak louder than words; he likes you, no question. Why do you need him to say it?
2006-10-31 06:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's telling you he likes you by hugging and kissing you!
I don't think he'd actually have to say the words, "i like you"...his actions are talking LOUD AND CLEAR
2006-10-31 05:53:49 · answer #11 · answered by Flower 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋