He will know it was me if she finds out becasue I am the only one that knows. (he told me a year ago when we were friends). But I hate him so much that I want to ruin his life.
2006-10-31 05:35:32 · 13 answers · asked by baby girl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, because you are wanting to tell for the wrong reasons. If you were genuinely concerned about his wife, that's one thing. But to tell his wife because you hate him so much and want to ruin his life is just wrong.
Stay out of it is my advice. She probably won't believe you anyways.
2006-10-31 05:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ladybug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about his wife. Do you want to be constructive of destructive. Were you the one he was cheating on his wife with? So many questions. If you are a friend of his wife, then tell him that he is not treating her right. Give him a time limit to end the relationship and set things straight or you will tell his wife and let her handle it. Just realize that you could end a marriage when you tell the wife. Yes, he is in the wrong and maybe he has numerous excuses on why he did it, but you will have to look in the mirror everyday wondering wither or not what you did was honorable.
2006-10-31 13:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not care about your friendship with his wife, go ahead and tell.
But from personal experience I have found the following to be true:
1. The bearer of bad news, will always be more hated than the spouse. (that would be you)
2. Butting into another person's marriage, generally does not make you the friend other people want to have around.
3. If the worst happens, let's say the wife kills herself, him, or the other woman, could you live with yourself?
4. What goes around, comes around. Karma is real and she is a vindictive b*tch.
This sounds like it is not in any way your problem. Other than being spiteful, I do not see any advantages to this.
Leave him and his doomed marriage alone, he will shoot himself in the foot soon enough without your help. Cheating losers almost always do.
2006-10-31 13:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be ruining his life, you'll be saving two lives and finding relief for yourself. this is any easy one. simply type out a letter regarding the issue and sign it 'anonymous'... obviously type written "anonymous." then mail the letter to a friend out of state...you can use me if you wish, I love a good caper (lol). Then this person will mail it back to the person you wish to know.....you can simply type: "i know for a fact tom has cheated on you, thought you should know because it ruined my relationship" (whatever his name is). Anyhow, it's come from out of state and she'll show him the letter....if you want to be more specific so she knows who it was? Then get a friend to call her at her work or when she is alone and say "i had sex with tom a year ago and i thought it only right for you to know" ... when she asks "who is this!? have your friend say the real name (only first) and then say, "i feel so bad, but i had to tell you, it was eating me up inside and now i have to hang up" ... then hang up. If you want to get REAL elaborate hire a private detective to tell her...this way she'll think some big deal is surrounding some private eye telling her about something this important. And remember, if he told you then this means other people know as well.. ...I gaurantee it....so don't worry. email me if you have a question. be well.
2006-10-31 13:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its none of your business. Hating someone and wanting to ruin their life will only come back to bite you in the ***!! You should look at yourself and what kinda person you are before you throw stones!!!
2006-10-31 13:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your nose out of other people's business. His infidelity will eventually come out. if you open your mouth she'll probably hate you, your husband will lose a friend, and he'll definitely hate you...you'll end up hurt too
2006-10-31 13:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by superstar_81882 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of how you would feel if you were in her shoes. Wouldn't you want to know? And if you hate him enough, what is to stop you from telling?
2006-10-31 13:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by cabjr1961 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of his business unless you are friends with his wife, then you should tell her. Other than that leave it be.
2006-10-31 13:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
2006-10-31 13:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell on him, if you hate him, who cares, but make sure you have proof not just he told me
2006-10-31 13:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋