I just found out my boyfriend died last night. And I think of the way epople treat eachother, and all the anger and it makes me sick. I lost someone I loved very much and I dont even know what to do with myslef rightnow. It is Halloween so none of my family or friends will drive with me to go say good bye to him at the morgue. Have you ever lost some? This is my first tiem, whatdo I do? I juist wanted to let everyone know on here because you all need to get off the computer and tell your family you love them becuase you never know when they will be gone! I feel lost right now
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15 minutes ago
we were togethe for 3 years
7 minutes ago
I actually found out last night and I have been crying, the thing is there isnt anyone here helping me, I sit here not knowing what to do just want to see him again I need soemone to talk to before I have a heart attack from smoking to many cigs, I know I sholdnt be on here.
2006-10-31 05:35:17 · 8 answers · asked by Star 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
U have the right to mourn someone u love. We can tell u how sorry we are for ur loss, but is that going to help u? U need something that none of the people here can give you. So here's a hug ((((hug)))). Cry all u need to, and remember the happy times together. It takes time, but the pain will dull. I will pray for u and his family.
2006-10-31 05:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by dragonkisses 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I am very sorry for your loss. I have never had to experience the feelimg of losing a oved one yet, though to sit up all night and cry I do know about. I have some sort of dissorder which makes me so confused that i can not think straight, I yell at the peop0le around me and then sit alone and wonder what is wrong wit my mind.
Your family and friends are ***** though for not taking you to see him at the morgue. I am sorry I can not be there with you to help ease your pain though you are welcome to email me if you like ad we can talk. Again I am very sorry for your loss and I know you have a hole in your spirit right now that I wish I could fill.
2006-10-31 13:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by CLOCKWORK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good I agree totally!
I am sorry for your loss, really!
Too many times I realized too late how much I loved someone.
I thank you for reminding me of this, because tonight is Halloween, and I didn't feel to go out too but maybe I should, and maybe you should too.
Think of him, go and be with him anyway, the soul of a person you love stays with you until you still need them.
I can testify on this when my father died.
In my experience we are never really apart from the people we love, they care for us to be fine, there is nice book of Nicholas Sparks - Love letters.
Take care!
2006-10-31 14:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss, but it has little relevance to the political wars now going on. We are all profoundly affected by politics, and with such huge interests at stake, vigorous disagreement is inevitable.
2006-10-31 13:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because POLITICS have split Americans up on purpose for the gain of a couple of knot heads
2006-10-31 13:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Chad S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right but if we all had the same opinion then it would one boring world all of us always agreeing to make everyone happy
2006-10-31 13:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by AlOnEiNtHeRaIn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are right
i have lost many of my friends and family.
know that they would want you to enjoy life every day
take care
today I'll play nice
2006-10-31 13:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by ken y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard for them to like each one another.
2006-10-31 13:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by cassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋