It hurts when the one u love does something that you dont like and he/she doesnt want to change....the more you love the more painful it is.....so should we stop loving?
2006-10-31 05:31:42 · 23 answers · asked by Faraz Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love hurts from the tolerance you have to sustain in something that you believe is right no matter how bad it gets. Your tolerance level can only be so much before you call it quits and then it still hurts, but you heal.
2006-10-31 05:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We should never stop loving, but who we love matters. If a person is unwilling to compromise on actions that hurt you, then you need to let go of them. Some people think that they can do whatever they want with impunity. Letting them hurt you proves their point.
Every person deserves respect and if you are not getting respect in a relationship, you have to decide when it is time to move on. If you are in a relationship where you are not important, then you are not really in a relationship.
Why do you love someone who is hurting you? That is the question you have to ask yourself. You need to understand what you love about that person. Is that person so important that they have the right to freely hurt you? The answer is always no, but you have to come to that conclusion on your own.
Take care and Good Luck,
Troy
2006-10-31 05:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not worry so much about stop loving right now, but start off with stop talking. Stop seeing. Stop communicating. Stop. Eventually you'll stop loving and wonder why you wasted so much time with someone who hurt you. Love isn't meant to be painful- that's how you know it isn't right. When it hurts. That's not love.
2006-10-31 05:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always better to have loved and lost then to not have loved at all. You should never give up on love because when you get to the worst part you always come out with the best. My boyfriend now did something to be that hurt me so bad he had his ex at our first apt. it broke my heart so bad but he lives with the guilt eating him inside every day, and i loved him and trusted him that he would never do it again. He cried because i was going to leave him, and if your man really cared for you he would change. good luck=}
2006-10-31 05:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn’t matter anymore.
I used to sit and wonder to myself,
what it was, I did so wrong.
Could I have treated you different?
or wrote you, a beautiful song.
I loved you with all of my heart,
and I believed, you truly loved me.
You used to say, I was your true love,
and there was no place, you’d rather be.
How could a love so wonderful and pure,
change, from the day we first met.
Was it I, who did you wrong,
or a friend, I will never forget.
But now, it truly doesn’t matter anymore,
why, you hurt and cheated on me.
Because I know, deep in my heart,
It wasn’t I, who cheated on thee.
So I just want you to know,
that if you ever, think of us two.
My life was truly changed, my dear,
and I deserve, a lot better than you.
By: Kenny P aka- Cobra
2006-10-31 05:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone, you open yourself up to be hurt by them and vice a versa. If you hurt someone you love accidental, it is forgivable. If you hurt someone you love intentionally, then it is a very bad reflection on how much respect they give you and wither or not the relationship is worth continuing. We all have our disappointment, but we must be able to know when a love is not worth saving. Does your partners virtues out weigh his faults? Are you better off with them or with out them. It is best to know these things before you decide to have kids.
2006-10-31 05:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't stop loving... if they really love you, they'll eventually stop doing what they're doing that hurts you.
When someone repeatedly hurts you, they definitely need to understand how what they did to you, feels to you.
If you do the same thing to them & it hurts them, then tell them that's how they made you feel... & then they can gain a deeper understanding, & hopefully it will help them quit doing it to you.
I'm not suggesting revenge at all... just suggesting helping that person gain an understanding... sometimes, we need to experience what we dish out, in order to understand how we affect other people.
When we understand, then we can better ourselves & treat others better... & there's always room for self-improvement/betterment.
2006-10-31 05:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's good it only means that youve experienced how it is to feel loved and be loved, that is part of love, you should know that from the start. But once you get over with it and remeber how stupid you became after all those sleepy nights and non stop tears you would just laugh at it.. :)
2006-10-31 05:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Deal, Love is NOT finding the perfect person, it's finding a person you can see as a perfect person... basically, in the words of Dr. Phil, you need to find your 95% person and work on the other 5%... good luck, I'm sure it'll all work out
2006-10-31 05:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have given all you have and have no more to give, that is when you can stop loving. Your sanity is more important.
Try to not let little things get to you, and you will be a lot happier.
2006-10-31 05:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋