so I just started talking to this girl like 3 weeks ago(I known her for about a year but I started talking to her 3 weeks ago), and I mean talk, we spend talking like 2 hours a day, the thing is that Im starting to fall for her and I don't want to because she already has a boyfriend(he's out of town), I broke up with my girlfriend a week before I met her, oh, I don't know what to do, please help me.
2006-10-31 05:31:32 · 18 answers · asked by Diaz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find someone that is single.
2006-10-31 05:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her boyfriend is out of town, she may just be filling the void of his absence (sorry).
Which means when he comes back, you two won't be spending hours each day talking.
You may want to step back before you DO start falling.... you dont want to do that if there's no one there to catch you.
Another good idea may be to TALK to her. People underestimate the power of communication. She may be having similar feelings. Talk to her in person and ask her what she wants out of your 'relationship'.... does she want it to grow? or is she just killing time while her man is away?
At least you can gauge her reaction and get a better idea of what you're dealing with.
2006-10-31 13:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by sa_hollingsworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid talking to her so often now if you are falling for her. She has a boyfriend! And who knows she just may want a fling with you and you do not need to get involved with anything like that because you will have your feeling hurt in the end.
2006-10-31 13:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and let the chips fall where they may..If things work out in your flavor you know the answer. You need time to get over your old girlfriend, and time for her to get rid of her boyfriend.
2006-10-31 13:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her make the first move. That a way you want be accused of breaking up a relationship. Not only that maybe she doesn't feel the same way you are feeling. Then maybe she is. If you let her make the move you can't go wrong. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!!
2006-10-31 13:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Patient, don't make her cheat on her boyfriend, but be around for her, be her friend for now, she'll like having someone to talk to and maybe she will eventually grow towards ya, good luck!
2006-10-31 13:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by McAbby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes playing you for advantage. 2 hours talking a day is alot. use her quickly and ditch her before she gets a chance to do you the same way she is to her boyfriend now.
2006-10-31 13:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, you need to stop talking to her. You know she has a boyfriend and since you just got out of a relationship, you need to time alone
2006-10-31 13:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jacie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if things change when the boyfriend comes back.
She may make a change in men.
2006-10-31 13:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there could be potential between you two if you communicate that well.Take your time and develop your friendship.It could turn into something more for both of you.
2006-10-31 13:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ATTenTION .. first of all you met her (and your falling) tOO soon .. she's a player obviously .. wat if you too do hook up an as soon as YOU go outta town she doin the same thing to you .. you seem sweet dont play yourself
2006-10-31 13:34:31 · answer #11 · answered by tay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋