messing with other guys and i was not i love him and i don't want us to break up what should i do! he also called me and asked me where am i i lied and told him i was home but really at a holloween party so his friend that was at the party told him i was there so now my boyfriend is mad with me!
2006-10-31 05:30:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats how you treat someone you love....you lie? It doesn't sound like a good relationship to me.
2006-10-31 05:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by ratdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your fault. I'm sorry. I don't want to sound harsh but you lied to him and that has given him reason to doubt you now. You should never lie about something like that. He isn't your father and he cannot tell you where you can or can't go so always go for honesty. Why were you afraid to tell him you were at the party in the first place? Would he have accused you of cheating regardless? If so he is insecure and if he continues to be jealous you should move on. A jealous man could make for a dangerous situation. You should never be with someone you are afraid of. If he is a good guy then apologize and explain yourself then don't let it happen again. Respect yourself, your b/f, and the relationship. Remember, if you two don't have trust then you have nothing. Take care.
2006-10-31 05:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so the question you should be asking is why did you lie to him?? Are you really deeply in love with him?? And how would you feel if he did that to you?? You should not have lied especially knowing his friends were there DUH! they were gonna tell him! You need to think things over make sure he is really what you want. Don't drag him along. Do a little soul searching and make a good decision for you. best of luck
2006-10-31 05:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you messed up on your part, you lied to him. If you want to be in a relationship you need to tell the truth. I can see where he is coming from because you lied to him, of course now the trust is broken. You need to figure out how to make it up to him and just reassure him that you love him very much and would never do anything to hurt him.
2006-10-31 05:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all yeah he should be mad,was he not invited? or you just wanted to have fun yourself.if u rather have fun by yourself and not spend it with him too..your betetr off alone.but reassure him u did nothnig, and u shuldnt have lied..tell him you wouldt ever again
2006-10-31 05:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off...if you love him and you are together..why didnt he go with you?
second...if you love him, why did you lie?
he has every right to be mad....start asking for forgivness and prove to him you can be honest and not lie to him
2006-10-31 05:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's mad, you broke your trust bond with him when you lied. Ask him to please forgive you, explain why you lied (honestly) and hope he decides to forgive you. Good luck, honey.
2006-10-31 05:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you take him with you? Why did you lie. If you lie about one thing, you'll lie about another. the only thing you have is your credibility. You just lost yours with your boyfriend.
2006-10-31 05:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by exel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell did u lie? he has the right to be mad cauz u probably were screwin around n were tryin to cover it up
2006-10-31 05:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be mad at you, you lied to him. Now you should apologize.
2006-10-31 05:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋