How do you fell if your girlfriend still be on the phone with her ex boyfriend?

Question

knowing if they keep talking on the phone they are going to fall in love again and that we have been together for an while and that sh** is real between us

Answer 1

Let her know you don't like that and ask her to put herself in your shoes. I bet she wouldn't like for you to still have contact with your exgirlfriends.

Answer 2

I would tell her that there is not room enough for three in this relationship and that you don't feel she is serious about you and that you think she needs to find out where her heat is and untill then you'd rtather not have a relationship with her. Ask her how she would feel if you were chatting on the phone with your ex g/f's and tell her you would rather not have hurt feelings but rather go on with life. Not having her bring you down. See what her reply is and go from there you might be better off without her you could ask her if she would rather have an open relationship and both share her just to see what her answer would be... good luck you don't have to put up with it so don't!

Answer 3

Oh this is not a big deal. Maybe they get on phone to share ideas or something serious which is at the back of once mind. But i will not think of felling in love again.

Answer 4

I'm just telling you from a girls point, i have a fiance i love with all my heart, but at the beginning our relationship and i mean the first 6 months i talked to my ex of 2 years to have a fall just in case if the relationship did not work out i had some one there for me to run to. So i would say if she really cared for you two to work out she would stop talking to her ex because I'm sure she would flip if you talked to your ex still. good luck =}

Answer 5

Back up. Why is it so certain that if they talk they'll fall back in love? If you two are really as close as you say, then you have nothing to worry about. Give your girlfriend some credit- it isn't guaranteed, probably not even likely, that she'll cheat on your at the first chance she gets.

But to answer your question: Try asking her.

Answer 6

If it was so real, then she wouldn't be on the phone with her ex falling back in love. Sorry. She should respect you and stay off the line with him, if you have asked. If not and it really bothers you then you need to ask her to not speak with him anymore. If she doesn't stop speaking to him, then you should reassess the relationship.

Answer 7

You just have to be able to trust her. If you don't have that...you don't have much at all. I went through the same situation with my bf. He kept reassuring me that nothing was ever going to happen between the two of them. I trusted him, and we've been together ever since. She made a move and he told her it was over, even as friends. They no longer talk.
Just tell her how you feel about it. That it bothers you that they still talk and that you're worried about what could happen.

Answer 8

Not good my friend not good at all....1st of all if she is on the phone with her ex then she's just not that into you or she wouldn't want to talk to another man especially an ex. Sorry

Answer 9

you cant stop her from doing this but it looks like she might want him back. Tell her to choose in the next 24 hours. Then she will at least respect you.. this two timing stuff sucks.

Answer 10

Do you really want to be with someone that you have to prevent from having contact with other guys because she will fall for them? If she wants to be with you, then she will be with you, regardless of who else she comes in contact with. If you have to keep her in a cage then she doesn't really want to be with you.