Me and this guy dated for the longest time..And then when we got in a argument he said he never loved me and i wasnt pretty he lied to me the whole tim what should i do?I still cry over him and i think im still in love lol
(This happened this Summer but i got a new dude)
And it tears me when i think about this dude)
Celina
2006-10-31 04:36:18 · 16 answers · asked by celina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u need to move on...cause by cryng u cnt get him back n if he was really in love with u he would have come back to u..hey u cnt spoil your today for yesterday..I mean when u dig a grav it always stinks..Hey your future is more important then your past so why not look at the future n try n make it wonderful with what you have today...
2006-10-31 04:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk - well, I can't even use the word I want to use here, so jerk has to do for now.
I feel for you. I felt this way when my ex-husband didn't even try to stop me from divorcing him. I felt like he lied to me at our wedding ceremony, saying he loved me when he didn't..and certainly not forever like he promised.
It's going to hurt for a long time, and you will probably never forget it. Time will help, I promise you. Go ahead and cry...get it all out. Crying can be very cleansing and helpful. Lean on friends...you need them now. Find something that you love....somethign new that you didn't do together...adn throw yoruself into it. Reading, painting, hiking, travel. And give yourself the time to heal.
2006-10-31 04:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please. Move on. Aint nothing worse than a dude who says they love you and dont. then he said you were ugly? Aw hell!... move on. Hopefully the guy you have now is way sweeter than that last jerk you had. Hopefully, you will regain some confidence and just keep stepping. Dont let him break you down like this either and you should not love someone who doesn't love you as much or more than you love them. So, my advice is to keep steppin and dont look back on his sorry ***.
2006-10-31 04:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i understand that feeling....i think ur missing the good stuff u had but u gotta realize he was a liar and definitely move on especially if he hurt u like that....especially with a new guy in ur life...try to enjoy that...that's part of moving on but u definitely need to let go of the other dude if he said all that to u...let that evil *** dude go! but its normal to hold on for a lil bit, if ur thinkin about all the good stuff u did have when it lasted....good luck ma
2006-10-31 04:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to move on.... you say that you found someone else, so why are still concerned about somebody who lied to you and made you feel bad? Don't try to hold on to something that isn't there, move on, girl.
2006-10-31 04:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was very rude of him to hurt your feelings that way. It may hurt to think about him but he is not worth your time. You are better off with out him. I don't think someone can care about someone else and talk to them that way. Good Luck!
2006-10-31 04:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by grace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. Why would you want someone that doesn't feel the same way about you. In another year, I guarantee you'll be over him.
2006-10-31 04:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May b he said it out of anger. Y Would he date u if he thinks ur ugly, any way ur prlly betteroff without him, enjoy wit ur new bf
2006-10-31 04:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by No1SoptTN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said those things too you he is obviously very shallow, you are better off without him! Love the one your with and hopefully he treats you with respect and loves you for you!
2006-10-31 04:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by ZiggyCool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl im going through the same thing maybe he was your first love but once you love somebody your alwayz going to love them no matter what you just have to forget him and try to move on...sry bout ur relationship and congrats on your new one
2006-10-31 04:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋