2006-10-31 04:34:09 · 27 answers · asked by BO BOO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure she already knows and probably feels quite bad about it. The only way you should mention it is if you have a solution, you know, willing to come up with a good dentist or help pay for one.
2006-10-31 04:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by sacharose 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a hard one, of course I could tell my husband that easy enough but you girlfriend yikes, what if you were just honest with her, like does she smile a lot or does she know she has bad teeth because if she does not smile enough you could say " You know Shelly I was noticing you don't smile a lot are you self conscious of your teeth, because if you are I know this great dentist who does great work" hopefully you do some research on a dentist, and just tell her " You have a beautiful smile but I don't think your letting lose with your smile and if its because of your teeth that's easy enough to fix" maybe tell her about how bad your completion use to be. Good luck with that one.
2006-10-31 04:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by sweepit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by bad teeth? Is it yellow and green and dirty, If so you don't need to be afraid that you might hurt her. By telling her to get her teeth clean you are doing her a favor. But if her teeth is clean and needs some adjustment, Ummm I really can't commnet on that. I would say you should have checked her out before you started dating.
But what can happen tell her the truth.
2006-10-31 04:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. If you don't have good communication, what kind of a relationship should you expect?
Be tactful - don't phrase it in a mean way.. think of ways to say it that are as nice as possible.
Be reassuring to her that you care for her and that is why you are mentioning it.
Perhaps write down different ways to say it before hand so that you don't just blurt it out at some point.
Brush your teeth or floss in front of her (if possible) - maybe she'll get the hint that oral hygiene matters to you by body language instead of words.
2006-10-31 04:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a true friend you just tell her, I mean be a bit discreet about it but she is your friend and she may not like going to the dentists maybe if you tell her you will go with she will be able to get some help for her teeth.
2006-10-31 04:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dammmmnn....that's embarrassing. If my boyfriend told me I had bad breath...that would hurt my feelings and I would most likely not want anything to do with him. When you are around her make sure you have some strong gum or mints that can over power her bad breath. Then, she may get the hint. Or just be a man and tell her straight up. She probably has a hygiene issue. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-31 04:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not for that would make her cofidance go down and she most likely knows her teeth are bad. Before you be degrading of her you degrade yourself. No person is perfect dear remember it is not the outside that matters it is who we are. right now you are coming off as a shallow person
2006-10-31 04:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand? How could she not know she has bad teeth? Hand her a mirror and ask her to look at the green one in the back on the left.....and ask if thats gum or a bad tooth......sheesh!
2006-10-31 04:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Tell Her
2006-10-31 04:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more important question is why you want to tell her. . .
If you tell her, her initial thought will probably be that you are embarassed by her. If she isn't already, it will likely make her self-conscious.
I wouldn't bring it up unless you have suggestions or means of helping her - whitening - or dental insurance.
2006-10-31 04:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋