My ex broke up with me cowardly about three weeks ago for another girl. Since then we have not spoken or seen each other. He really broke my heart. I love him but I really hate him. (I am working through it and moving on.) The thing is that he thinks everything is cool between us. We accumulated a lot of stuff during the relationship and it is for the most part at my apartment. He keeps texting me asking me when he can divide up our community property. I have not responded. We are not cool he is a jerk off. I don't want to see him or talk to him. I know any response from me at this point will be really b^%&y and I don't want to give him the satisfaction of knowing that I'm really hurt. What clever way can I respond that says no chance in h*ll without appearing hostile. Or should I still continue to ignore him?
2006-10-31 04:33:31 · 2 answers · asked by Freespirit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would totally blow up his ego if he knew him leaving me hurt as bad as it did. When we split I acted as if it was no big deal and good riddance. Pride is everything. If I come back at him acting like a b*&tch then that will put a different spin on it.
2006-10-31 04:39:51 · update #1
Divide up the stuff and put his on the front porch then tell him to come and get it. Be there and act like you are fine. You don't have to small talk but don't let him see you're bothered, either. That will eventually REALLY get to him, esp. if you don't talk to him afterwards.
2006-10-31 04:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tuff one...
i dont think he will get any pleasure out of you being hurt, just let it go.
2006-10-31 04:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋