I have this friend that said he liked me for a long time and I told him that I had a boyfriend. And I told my boyfrined that he had kissed me... But i was still friends with him.. now my boyfriend said that I am not even allowed to talk to him because that's disrespectful if he still tried to make a pass at me even though he knew that I was going out with someone. Is he right about me not talking to him. He's still my friend and I don't want to ruin the friendship, but I told him that he was wrong for kissing me. What should I do?
2006-10-31 04:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by Foxxy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't kiss him back... it was a sudden thing and I was surprised because I didn't know how he felt about me at the time...
2006-10-31 04:37:29 · update #1
wel to tell u the truth and u know about my situation too but i think u should tlk to him about this little rule cuz it seems that he's trying to control u i mean yea the dude knew u had a boyfriend and yea he knew the consequences but u r still friends if ur guy can't see that then he's an a@$ but he should also try tlking to the guy about making a pass on u but if he an a#% then yea i can see if he just jump to conculsions but the real question is that do u want to be in charge of who u r and who u hang with or do u want to plz ur man
2006-10-31 07:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Toniesponge 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound very young, but first of all, you learned a valuable lesson, telling a BF what someone else did got you in hot water and now you are in a pickle. I see two problems, one a controlling, bossy boyfriend who's calling the shots for you and two, getting a kiss (when and where was it?) and did you kiss him back? Your age is important here, but please don't say it here, as there are all kinds of pervs here, but nonetheless, being 13 and having this happen, well, you are too young to have this kind of drama and if you're more like 16, well, a bossy controlling BF is only the beginning of your troubles. If you are in your 20's oh boy......your friend shouldn't have kissed you if you didn't want to be kissed, and your boyfriend is a control freak, but right about your friend making an unwanted pass. I think I'm with one other poster who said dump them both. You are on the wrong track. But if you liked the friends kiss, then dump Mr. Control Freak and kiss the friend HELLO! Good luck!
2006-10-31 12:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, what's wrong with you kids? Why is he wrong for kissing you? You're not married to the other guy. Your boyfriend is just jealous, possessive and insecure, I would be perfectly fine with it if a dude kissed my girlfriend and she told him "no, I'm with someone".
2006-10-31 12:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i didnt know any better i would think you where my friend... i kissed her and she has a boyfriend, i kissed her before she had a boyfriend but i dont know if he knows, stick with your friend he still loves you even though you are with someone elts he is the kind of guy who will forgive anything.
2006-10-31 12:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds simple to me - either you want to keep your current boyfriend and drop you friend or you want to be friends with him and drop your boyfriend. Your boyfriend will not change his mind. Sometimes you keep things to your self to keep the situation simple.
2006-10-31 12:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT THE TWO OF YOU SHOWED A LACK OF RESPECT FOR YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP. I THINK YOUR BF IS RIGHT TO BE UPSET ABOUT "THE KISS". I THINK YOU SHOULD HONOR YOUR BFs REQUEST TO STOP TALKING TO THIS GUY BECAUSE OF THE LACK OF RESPECT.
2006-10-31 13:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump both of these losers and spend some sack time with me
2006-10-31 12:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell your boy-friend to mind his own bussiness!
2006-10-31 12:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by crisjul v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋