*** so easily....
One of them did within 30 sec..
is that possible?
and whyyy?
is the sex that bad?
bad for me though.
2006-10-31 04:15:36 · 17 answers · asked by ~*SagiTTarius*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*** so easily....
One of them did within 30 sec..
is that possible?
and whyyy?
is the sex that bad?
bad for me though.
He is 22.
2006-10-31 04:26:43 · update #1
he didn't even really penetrate me.
he was inside me and he said i felt really warm.
2006-10-31 04:29:40 · update #2
They cant help it, they get so excited it just happens. Next time tell him you get to go first!
2006-10-31 04:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by kruzluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... If.. he was thinking about sex... before the actual penetration... then... that would of given him enough time to send plenty enough blood to his Penis... and the seconds he made contact.. BAM! for some guys... it happens.. you just got to keep his mind focus on not Cumming.... its also mental... if he is too into penetration its a lost cause....
Here try list... let him masturbate... so that he gets his jollies out and when he is ready let him go at it.
To speed up your *** time... I suggest that you lay on your back... put a pillow under your ***... maybe two... so when he is... doing his thing his Penis is hitting where your clitoris would be FROM THE INSIDE... its going to take a while for you'll to get it right.. and he has to be 4' and up for it to be effective... longer isn't necessarily better.
Good luck.
2006-10-31 12:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by sageoflight1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if the guy is finishing his business that fast the sex wasn't bad for him. A lot of it has to do with inexperience and lack of self control. Sometimes the guy just wants to get his and be done with it. A man can learn to control how quickly or slowly he completes his "mission". Have him practice, or you help him with masturbation, bringing him almost there and slowing down and stopping. Keep doing this until each time becomes longer before he has to finish.
2006-10-31 12:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's common for some guys to last only a minute to a few min. inside before they *** Anything further for them is an exercise in consideration. So saying, if you start to notice a pattern of inconsideration - dump him before things get too serious. If he doesn't help you reach enjoyment now (I don't care what he says outside the bedroom to make you feel sorry for him or what advise you get from magazines) he will never take the time to please you. There is no excuse for that. End it.
2006-10-31 12:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Main reasons: lack of experience, lack of concern for her and nerves!
Virgins cannot keep it for more than a couple of seconds,.... once they've "practiced", they learn self-control and that taking care of their need is not what's best for them. Once a gentleman learns the benefits of bringing his partner to simultaneous climax, he'll gladly take the extra time!
Remember guys are like microwave ovens - instant on!.... women are more like crock-pots and take longer to warm up, but in the end produce a much richer experience!
2006-10-31 12:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they Kum that soon, they either don't get it often, or they are totally turned on. It isn't necessarily anything you did wrong. But, that is why fourplay is so fun, bc YOU can get totally turned on so it is more pleasurable during sex even if you don't yours. Get a feather boa. Have him run it all over your body, awwww, it is awesome. Just think outside the box......no pun intended.
2006-10-31 12:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are premature ejaculators. Either that or he hadnt ejaculated in a long time, and was REALLY turned on by you. I tend to tell guys with this problem to go with an "unloaded weapon" before going out with a girl. This helps you to last longer in bed. Have him masturbate before you have sex.
2006-10-31 12:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are so young and easily excited, as they get older they learn control and how to make it last for a long time
2006-10-31 12:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by Todd V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to know the age of the guy. Could be nerves, young, great body etc. on you. many factors. Tell him to rub one out about an hour earlier. Maybe the pu**y is just that good?
2006-10-31 12:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they are simply too excited and too inexperienced with their own bodies. As guys mature, they become more able to control themselves and thus last much much longer.
Also, a more mature guy will be able to satisfy his partner first to permit the sexual experience to be enjoyed by both!
2006-10-31 12:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if the guy could not control himself and came too quickly. It's not necessarily anything you did wrong -a nd quite possibly can be remedied. ** Keep working on it. ;-)
2006-10-31 12:18:22 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋