see.i love that girl.she is very beautiful,nice natured,itelligent.she is my life.we want to marry each other.but do u think we are small for love.but we know one thing that we love each other truely and we will not marry any other person.we both cant live without each other.do u think we are in true love?are we kids for dis relationship?we dont xpect anything sexualy from each other.what should we do abt our relation?plz tell me i beg for it .plz.
both of us are 14 years old.
2006-10-31 03:50:09 · 14 answers · asked by raj gill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take your time - you may very well be in Love with each other - but don't get into any major commitments yet - you still have a lot of life to live.....
2006-10-31 03:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by akelaamy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're young.
I know that you don't understand what that truly means, but you are so so very young.
You both have so much growing up to do, meeting and experiencing so much of the world. Young love is fine, and maybe you two will stay together but you have to realize that things will change. You both have High school and College ahead of you, your experiences there will change how you view things. Just keep an open mind. You are still young enough that you can be anything you want to be. Don't try to fight that just to hold on to the idea that you met your "true love" very young. You have no idea how many times you will think you have met your "true love."
2006-10-31 11:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live your life, stay close friends and wait a few years and see how it comes out. God has a plan for the both of you and it may be together and it may not. Just keep on living and doing your school and being friends and making friends.
aka: Have life without planning on getting married yet, you may hope but don't plan anything or the slightest fight may turn sour for the both of you.
Best of luck for the bith of you,
~Radio
ps I'm not old i'm just a year or two older than you so i'm still learning too
2006-10-31 11:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Youngling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God bless you.
It all takes time. All i can say is love matures! If you can see yourself with this girl forever and ever then just make sure that you both treat each other with kindness and dignity. You will know when your in love, it hits you like a lightning bolt!
I must admit at age 14 - i still didnt understand love - our minds are too young, but believe me - you will know it when it comes into your life. What i can say now is just enjoy each other's feelings and just see what the future brings.
2006-10-31 11:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by kjbr00mie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR BEST APPROACH IS GOING TO BE THIS, KEEP ON DATING FOR AS LONG AS YOU BOTH FEEL THIS WAY AND THEN WHEN YOU ARE OLDER AT LEAST 18 OR 19 YOU CAN GET MARRIED(BETWEEN 19 AND 23 IS BEST AGE) ,BUT WHEN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED / MARRIED AT A YOUNG AGE IT CAN RUIN RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO HAVE A WAY TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER WITH MONEY. MY ADVICE IS TO DO WHAT STAY IN SCHOOL AND GRADUATE HIGH SCHOOL AND GO TO COLLAGE YOU CAN(GET A JOB OR WHATEVER) TO EARN AND SAVE SAVE SAVE(SAVE AND NOT SPEND KEEP THE MONEY IN A ACCOUNT OF YOUR OWN AT THE BANK) MONEY BETWEEN KNOW AND 19 YEARS OLD YOU SHOULD TRY TO SAVE AT LEAST $10,000 $20,000 OR $30,000 AT LEAST THIS IF NOT MORE TO START IF AND WHEN YOU CAN NOT SAVE ALL THE MONEY YOU EARN THEN SAVE $10 OR $20 OF EVERY $100. ON THE OTHER HAND YOUR FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER MAY CHANGE OVER THE NEXT FEW YEARS BUT TRY TO FALLOW YOUR HEART, IT WOULD BE VERY GOOD FOR YOU IF YOU WILL TALK TO YOUR MOM AND OR DAD ABOUT THIS AND ASK THEM HOW THY GOT STARTED WITH MONEY AND HOW OLD THY WERE WHEN THEY GOT MARRIED, HOW OLD THY WERE WHEN THY MET EACH OTHER, TO TALK TO THEM WILL HELP YOU A LOT P.S. NOT ONLY EARN MONEY BUT YOU NEED TO LEARN ABOUT MONEY LIKE HOW TO MAKE MONEY WITH MONEY READ THESE TWO BOOKS ALL THE WAY THROUGH #1 THE HOLY BIBLE #2 The Richest Man in Babylon
Author: George S.Clason . HOPE I HELPED
2006-10-31 12:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great that you feel you are in love. You can't look to us for the answer of" are you in love" only the two ppl in love know .It is possible that you could marry you junior high sweetheart .. I would wait for the sexual part because if you are" in love" than you can wait for each other and if your not "in love" you wont make a mistake .Yourself whole is the best gift to give one another when you get married ..I hope this helps good luck in your future
2006-10-31 11:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by parentsofbadmeandt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that youare infatuated with each other. By all means, do not try to get married now. stay together and wait until you both feel like you can handle your adult responsibilities. There is no reason for you not to continue to have a relationship, but you should wait for amrriage discussions until you both mature a bit more
2006-10-31 11:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rum_Punch_Girlie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm u both r too young to understand the concept of "true love" n "marriage" take ur time , take time to understand each other but also concentrate on ur studies, u ppl r young n may b r too much influenced by romantic movies, b practical, u hv a long way to understand d realities of life so till then enjoy ur life.good luck.
2006-10-31 12:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...
Dont even think of getting married.... keep the relation smooth........if u cant live without each other dun even think of taking stupid steps... let it go on..... ur not to small for this relationship but 4get about marriage........
2006-10-31 11:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both need to see other people you are just 14 years old. You got a lot of good years in fount of you.
2006-10-31 11:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by ujudy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋