2006-10-31 03:48:47 · 44 answers · asked by ajflgrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Afraid?
I think they're just disgusted because of a warped sense of beauty created by make-up and computers.
2006-10-31 03:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by sebastian 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Dating Fat Girl
2016-11-12 08:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what kinda guy your talking about. For the most part, people hook up with others that are at a similar "level" of physical attraction as they are. For example, this would explain why really cute girls are with attractive guys. Of course, this isn't always the case. But for the most part it is true. It can be hard, especially for guys, if they are not physically attracted to a girl to get her know who she is. I mean this in a dating / relationship sense. I don't think a guy is necessarily afraid, he probably just isn't attracted. But, keep this in mind (my own experience). I am a tall, kinda lanky guy who is mostly attracted to tall, skinny girls. I went out with a girl a met on an online dating site. When we met, she was short and kinda chubby. But, she was cute, and she had spunk. We talked and laughed the entire time and it was so much fun! We ended up seeing each other for a little while. I had so much more fun with her than many other tall, skinny girls I have dated, hands down. It varies by individual.
2006-10-31 03:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by cagewalker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, not all guys like certain types of girls. That doesn't mean that something is wrong with the girl, she just may not be his type. Also, there are things that you don't like in guys and you would not date them. My point is that if a girl doesn't fit a category for a guy, SO WHAT, she will with someone else, and I'll bet you that the guy who likes her is BETTER than the guy who didn't want her. I have learned to just be yourself. If he doesn't like you because of your size, that's his problem, you just move on to someone who does. As you get older you will see that all the little skinny-minny girls that were "hot" put on weight and the same guys will talk about them and not want to be with them. Don't waste your time on guys who are afraid to date thick girls, that's their problem, not the girl! Do away with the word "fat". If you are happy with yourself, then your true friends and potential boyfriends will accept you at the weight you are right now! Enjoy your life!!!!!!
2006-10-31 03:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by AMAZON 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not that guys are afraid of dating fat girls. Some just dont find them attractive, others do but are scared that their other jerk friends would make fun of them. I think it stems from society teaching them that skinny chicks are beautiful and big girls aren't. But this isn't true in all cases. There are plenty of big women who are beautiful and have plenty of men who find them attractive. A lot of it is in the presentation. Girls need to learn that you have to dress for your size.. wearing clothes that fit you right will make you look better and even thinner... cramming into a smaller size so that your tag says a particular number, will always make you look worse and much heavier than you are. No guy wants to be with someone who looks all messy and sloppy - no matter what size they are.
2006-10-31 03:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its mostly because of what there friends or others will say. Guys these days are sadly like that, there either into skinny girls or they are to afraid because of what society thinks a women should look and and are generally fearful of judgment. Its all messed up!
Why can't people date someone for there genuine personalty, instead of what they appear to look like. Its the inward appearance that counts not the outward. But these days its just the opposite! And its not just men that do so, but also women do it too.
2006-10-31 03:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it is cause they feel that dating a larger girl instead of a skinny one would make them look bad. Their buddies won't approve. It is a shame too, cause they are not getting to know the personality of someone who is larger. They just may be missing out on someone who will treat them extremely well.
It is sad that looks have a lot to do with society.
What if everyone was blind? This would cure allot of problems with LOOKS.
Most people want to see what is on the outside than the inside. Most people look at it, if a person is fat it is because they are a pig. That is so wrong. It is mostly a health problem that they don't know how to cure or is not curable. No a days most are curable Just have to find out what is keeping them heavy.
2006-10-31 04:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A man who is not serious about a relationship, or love will not date a heavy woman, because it is more important to him that HE look good, and having a thin pretty looking girl makes him look important, and hot to his friends, and other males. It is the person inside that matters in the book of love, not their looks. If a man won't date a heavy girl because she is heavy, then hes a sad sack, and could be missing out on the best gift God gave us, true love. Take care of yourself, heavy or not, and only rely on your instinct to know when you are loved, for YOU, not a puppet.
2006-10-31 03:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by xenypoo 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
because guys think about what people say about them. they don't want their peers to laugh at them because he is dating a fat girl and he could to better. one thing i want you guys to know is you can't always judge a book by it's cover. she might be fat so?love is from the inside not just the looks.skinny girls may have the body but may not have the personality.
2006-10-31 03:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by lizzy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a self-esteem issue. Lots of girls are afraid of dating fat guys, too. They want to be judged positively based on those they are with.
2006-10-31 03:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by jfellrath 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
obviously you are hanging around with the wrong guys. there are plenty of guys out there that don't mind chubby women. Now, if your really young, the guys in your age group are all about image to their friends... so, no matter how much they like a girl, if she has any "imperfections" he will stay clear as to avoid peer pressure.
As men age, they become less influenced by their friends. That's when they will let their true wants be known.
I would rather be with a chubby woman who is good to me, that appreciates me and that I have chemistry with than to be with some arm candy that has a miserable personality!
2006-10-31 03:53:43 · answer #11 · answered by Dog Lover 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋