Guys, at what age do you think a woman stops being "hot" and too old to have sex with?

Question

I'm 33 and I'm still good looking and have a great figure (no kids and great breast implants). However, I'm not nearly as hot as I was when I was 24! I get very depressed about this. I'm attracted to guys in their early and mid 20's. I know I can easily pass still for around 28! I know I sound shallow but I my self-esteem has always revolved around my looks and sexuality. I'm trying to work on developing other interests so I'm not so consumed by this. I'm also going to start working out. I reassure myself that women like Demi Moore, Sara Jessica Parker, Christie Brinkley, and Pamela Anderson are all 40 or older and are very hot. PLEASE DON'T REPORT THIS QUESTION simply because I said "SEX". This is a legitimate question and not perverted. It is also daytime so kids should be in school. I will simply ask it again at another time. Please be kind, I'm depressed and need feedback and I know alot of other women feel the same way I do, right?????????

Answer 1

Hotness Knows no age.

I think a woman's hotness stays with her at least until her mid to late 40's. The slowly goes down for most (but not all) in their 50s, only a few stay hot into their 60s, but by 70s I think most have hotted out (but I am sure their are few who remain hot even after that).

Answer 2

Your question shows that it's less of an age-related question as it is a self-confidence question. You can project self-confidence and sex-appeal at any age! If your sole goal is to seduce men in their early 20's, though, you may find that your 'target audience' desires a younger women, not a sexier one.

The addage that age is a frame of mind applies. There are many men that are in their early 30's that are not only more mature (capable of managing a conversation that doesn't include the phrase "like, uh, yeah, um, totally") but are also more tuned into providing a woman the stimulation and interaction that she is looking for (both sexually and emotionally).

So, if you're just trying to impress the boys, then perhaps the time has passed. There are a great deal of men that would be able to provide so much more than "good sex".

Answer 3

Obviously I'm too old for you to be interested in my opinion but I will give it any way. I don't think a woman ever gets too old for sex and is still hot at any age. It is and always has been more about attitude and the person you are over all then the looks. Sure, your looks will get you shallow guys who are just looking for a good time and that has probably been fine in the past. However, your growing older and nothing in the world will stop that process. But your also maturing and what you want and what you find important in your life and what you want for your future is also starting to change. It is great that you are looking towards taking better care of yourself, for that is important. Not because it makes you look better, but because it shows you care about yourself and make an effort to look good. You will never be able to compete with those young 20 year olds in terms of looks but as you grow older you have so much more in your life to offer someone and that is what will forever make you "hot". It is your attitude, your playful nature, all of the experiences you've had along the journey of life that you can share and bring to others.

Answer 4

First and foremost you must address this problem. And trust me it is a problem. No one...regardless of heredity.....ever keeps from getting old and looking it sooner or later.

If at 33 you already are depressed you have to understand you have a problem. You say a lot of women have this problem. No doubt but I would venture to say most adjust. This you must do.

If you come to understand that at any age you are a very sexy and wonderful human being your looks will not longer be your center.
I have no doubt that you are a very desirable women. But is that what you want to center yourself around for the rest of your life?
I hope not.

Do you know what the most sexy and attractive thing is about a women? A women who is open friendly and very comfortable with herself is always very attractive. if she keeps herself neat that is all she ever needs.

You may get a lot of answers that say nothing more than "Oh you poor thing". But I know your pain. I have always been shy. And...while you may see no tie in....there really is.
It is all about self confidence. I am a person who is as good or better than anyone else. Once we come to know that no matter how we look does not matter.

There are signs in your statement that you are very insecure. Not just about your looks either. Not many people will understand that. We look at the beautiful people....like yourself.....and we think how could they be so lucky. Clearly you are....in the final analysis...just like everyone else.

Find out why men your own age do not appeal to you. I mean really. Is it because you think they may demand more of you than your looks? What ever the reason you are really missing the boat. men in their 20's are still to gain experience in life. At your age most....not all...are beginning to realize what is of true value.
Get some help. You need to overcome this because there is only one alternative to aging. and that is just not exceptable.
have you heard of Marlyn Monroe? Such a fabulous woman but so may things wrong. Are you like her. I do hope not.

Answer 5

if you think demi moore is hot you need to re-evaluate some aspects about women sweetie. Have you seen her in Charlie's angels? she was awful! you sound a lot hotter than that. There's nothing wrong to have self-esteem based on how you look, I am a bit like that too. Who cares? shallow? if that is being shallow then I am super shallow! hey come on i'm 19 years old I work out I have an healthy diet and I am mantaining myself. There's nothing wrong about that, I like it and I will do my best to be hot for the rest of my life.

And damn I would love to meet a 33 year old hot chick I have no problems with that. Many guys like older women around your age so don't worry. As long as you're not a mistress of some guy I respect you.
And women won't stop being hot before their 60's if they always take care of themselves.

Answer 6

Hot is not all about looks. You have to factor in how a person presents themselves also. Its also not about age as there are numerous woman in there mid to late 40's that still turn more heads than women in there 20's & 30's

I am sure you look wonderful and jsut as good as you were younger. The gym is going to help out alot since you will have guys hitting on you all the time there and that in turn will pump up your self esteem

Answer 7

Jenni. Rest assured your still "hot". You sound a little unsure of yourself, but rest easy, look in the mirror and reassure yourself that you are a damn fine catch. Guys get older and their looks change as well. Hell, I'm not the guy I was 20 years ago. I have no idea what you look like, but if you are anything like how you just described yourself I would be fighting off guys to get to you just to say "Hi". Your self-esteem needs some stroking, but take comfort in knowing you are a beautiful, sexy woman!

Answer 8

Sex is an activity which interests u most when u r new to it. The heat or the intensity goes on diminishing with age. Probably after bearing a few children, it dimishes further. The names enumerated by u appear to have public perception of being hot. One does not know what they are in bed.

Answer 9

Being a women I can't agree. My mother is 54 and looks about 35. I think how you carry yourself is how people are attracted to you! She still gets hit on by men in their 20's. So look deep in yourself and find what makes your attractive! (It's not always your body or implants)

Answer 10

Well, I'm 30, look the same as when I was 25, so it depresses ME, that I wouldn't even have a chance with you, because I'm too OLD. See how getting so hung up on age can be a problem?