I know a guy who said that he had sex with someone who wasn't very experienced - she had only had sex once before their encounter, however he said that the she was awesome in bed.
So, guys, what in your opinion....makes a woman good in bed? Is it movement? Is it dirty talk? Is it experience? is it chemisty? or is it something else?
2006-10-31 03:44:39 · 30 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps all of the above.
2006-10-31 03:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has everything to do with being open sexually to the experience. I don't care what a woman looks like, if she is both turned on and shows interest in her partner being turned on, she is brilliant in bed.
Conversely, a self-involved woman is terrible. Since she is used to only thinking of herself, she will be thinking only of her own pleasure. (I have to assume the same is true of guys.) As such, no matter how much of a piece of eye candy she is, you wind up feeling like her butler.
As for this only being her second time, inexperience is only bad if it makes her nervous and timid. That is a problem, again, because the other person isn't able to be open sexually. If this girl was really turned on, it doesn't matter how much experience she's had. It's like the difference between a well trained actor on stage, and an actor who isn't but doesn't feel at all self-conscious about performing.
2006-10-31 11:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ciaoenrico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a good question. I've had sex with a young lady who was a quite experienced and wasn't exciting at all. She was a friend who I had watched dance and hoola-hoop and my friends and I couldn't help but think...holy sheet she must be good in bed. bzzzzt. wrong answer. she didn't move well, she din't try anything daring, and she wasn't that confident in the end. she may have been nervous so I'll give her that much...
but i'd say the best way to act in bed is that you really want to orgasm yourself. confidence. openness is sexy. raunchiness helps. smile. laugh. talk. it's a combo of how comfortable and how good you can make your partner feel. My girlfriend now is an amazing partner cause she knows what she wants, works hard, aims to please and has fun. Truth is it takes a little practice so it helps to be with the person for a period of time.
just know that you really want it (and what it is) and you'll be pleasing him in no time.
2006-10-31 11:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i used to find sex boring, not any better then masterbation...
untill i started doing a bit of research, and watching porn:)
i figured out what was wrong with me and my partner at the time... she had 'experience', we were in love, the chemistry between us was great... the problem i had, she would just lay there, not move an inch... she was there, with her legs spread, and that was the end of her movement...
even just a little movement makes a big difference for me:) you still need the other things though!
2006-10-31 11:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am about 51 % chemistry and 49 % attitude. The rest is all just physical attraction. I need to have a mental connection with a woman to become excited. Also, the attitude of the woman is very important. She must want the intimacy as much as I do. Then, if the above criteria is met, it is beautiful.
2006-10-31 11:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dog Lover 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
her being really horney and not afraid to let that show.
some girls who are bad in bed, in my opinion are so because they arent comfortable being sexual. They think that if they want it rough or they seem like there all about it that guys might think that they are/were sluts, which is totally wrong.
just be a freak and don't hold back, get on top like a bunny and get into it.
talking...ummmmm be quiet, not a time to talk and there dosent need to be any chemisty, just you both wanting to rock eachother hard is all that is needed.
seriously, if you screw the way you really want to in your head then you'll be good...
old or young, experienced or not... it's all about feeling comfortable with yourself
2006-10-31 11:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
its a combo of all of it, plus the desire of wanting to get that girl in bed. once a guy has it in his mind he wants to sleep with a women cuz he thinks she'd be a great partner his opinion is all ready biast. out of the few partners i had the best for me was my ex gf. i was her first so in time , keyword there "in time", i showed her how i liked it. on top of that she was on her high school swim team so she really new how to work her hips. she was great.
guys dont want a porn star in the bed but no guy wants a girl that has as much emotion as a blow up doll. knowing how to roll the hips, talking a little dirty and most of all be confident and keep us in our place.
2006-10-31 11:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The likes/dislikes of individuals r different. But if each partner takes interest in what is going on in the bed or elsewhere, life will be more interesting and meaningful.
2006-10-31 11:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman who initiates sex, enjoys herself throughout, isn't afraid to ask for what she wants, is willing to experiment and try things, and is comfortable in her own sexuality will enhance the experience for all parties involved.
2006-10-31 11:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by McB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone Willing. Also not wanting to just "Get It Overwith." Somewhat submissive. Reactive. On there own willing to touch feel and do not just spreading there legs and laying there like a piece of meat but caressing willing to use there tongue and mouth as well. Someone wanting to really get into it.
2006-10-31 11:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What makes a good sexual experience is the chemistry shared between two people. Without sparks there is generally no flame.
2006-10-31 11:50:28 · answer #11 · answered by docslim694u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋