My b/f and I have been together for a few months now. I've known him for about 6 years. We are both virgins and I honestly have not seen him in over a month. It's not like we live too far apart either. We are just both very busy. But when we do make plans, he cancels with lame excuses. I've asked numerous times if he wants to be with me b/c if not we should just end it now, but he always confims that he wants to stay with me. I don't know what to do!!
2006-10-31 03:43:58 · 12 answers · asked by JenniB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The real question is not what does he want, it is what do you want? I think you want more out of a relationship than what your getting and I don't blame you. What is the use in being with someone when in truth you are never with them? Relationships require people to make an effort to make them work and he isn't making any effort in this case. Break up with him and set yourself free so you can enjoy life and maybe find someone who loves you enough to make an effort to spend every possible moment being with you.
2006-10-31 03:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask yourself the obvious question, if you love him or not. Then you will then have to consider that he is playing you for a fool which in every case is not cool. He probably seeing someone else just to make you feel confused about your relationship, but if and when in need you do have to leave this guy. It's not worth it to go through thought and wonder of another person being in his life.
2006-10-31 11:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by girl_is_depeche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a bit of time, but if it draws out for too long and he keeps on doing that, then forget about him and move on 'cause he'll just be a waste of time. But do give it time at first so you don't make a mistake or something, maybe something is going on with him that he needs to work out. Best of luck!
2006-10-31 11:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really wants to be with you then he will make time for you so I say make a nother date and see what he comes up with this time and when he does then just let him know that your ending the relationship with him and let him know why
2006-10-31 11:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is seeing another woman behind your back and wants you to stay a virgin so he can be your first. IT'S ALL PART OF THE DATING GAME.
2006-10-31 11:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Student of the Game 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is seeing other people as well. Because if he is not wanting to be with you and not paying you any attetion that means that he does not want to be with you. I have just experiecned that myself. If he does not want to be with you let him go and find someone who will want to be with you and love you and like you for you.
2006-10-31 11:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Leah H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he isnt ready for a real relationship but doesnt want to admitt it to himself. Go back to being just friends now before you get too hurt to want to be his friend.
2006-10-31 11:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that if he cannot seem to make time for you, you will have to consider ending the relationship.
2006-10-31 11:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your phone number and that you'd like to see him when he gets a chance and then go on your way as if he's gone.
2006-10-31 11:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by slippped 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him. tell him you arent spending enough time together and you feel like you are growing apart. ask him if he wants to be with you if not then you need to move on
2006-10-31 11:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋