Look, there is a boy in my class. He looks at me every hour but i do not like him, because i like someone else. What can i do to stop him looking at me? I feel horrible because he stopped to study as good as he studied before he knew me. Tell me, what can i do? I don't want to hurt him but i don't want him to have dreams that will never be true.
2006-10-31 03:42:05 · 26 answers · asked by Melany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like all you can do is hurt him.
Tell him the idea of him repulses you and you'd rather jump off of a cliff.
2006-10-31 03:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by sebastian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, you have to realize that just because he's looking doesn't mean he likes you, but if he does, you need to be gentle with him, and tell him the truth. EX. I see you noticing me, and I think it's really great that you like me, but I have my heart set on someone else. And I believe in following what you want whole heartedly. Also, I'm a little worried that you aren't doing as well in class as you used to be. I really want the best for you, and I don't want something unrealistic to stop that for you.
2006-10-31 03:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by scoutredneckfluffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make it blatently obvious that you like someone else. Don't talk to him, bc it may give him a string to hold onto. Just talk around him about the guy you like. Don't be too rude to him. YOu don't want him to hate you. It is a fine line, but just don't let him catch you looking at him. He may take that as a sign. If it comes down to you having to tell him, or write him a note, do it. But only if he doesn't take the hint. Good Luck.
2006-10-31 03:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey in things like this you can't be around the branches, you most go for the tree's trunk. So sorry if you break his heart, but it wasn't you who seeded those dreams, it was his own, so those dreams are his responsibility. To let him know what your thoughts are you don't have, and I know you won't, to be rude, but because his dreams will be shattered there no possible way to make him feels good after this awakening. Let him know in a gently, but in a firmly way.
2006-10-31 03:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care if he looks at you? Just ignore him and let him look all he wants. It doesn't affect you any. If you ignore him and go on with your life, he will get the hint sooner or later.
All people have dreams that never come true. You can't control what other people think. Let him think what he wants to. It doesn't affect you.
2006-10-31 03:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could say to him he needs to concentrate on his studies instead of looking at you all the time that he would get better grades and he is keeping you from concentrating.
Then politely tell him that you will be his friend, but to please stop looking at you like he is undressing you.
2006-10-31 03:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweety.its a common problem which happens almost with every girl, even i have faced this problem.but dear, no need to worry.Just tell about this to any of ur good friend who can handle that guy.Or you can take your teacher's help.
And yes dont care of that guy coz he seems to be a flirty.
Good Luck.
2006-10-31 03:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by sneha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll have to talk to him. Consider that anything you say besides "I love you, too", will be painful and will hurt him, but it's better than having him daydreaming about you all the time. You should tell him in a nice way, though. Just say you don't like him as much as he likes you (don't use the "I like you as friends" phrase, that's lame").
2006-10-31 03:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by Setsuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poke his eyes out, that way he wont be able to look at you anymore.
Either that, or (and this is a serious answer) have a little word with him or get one of your friends to have a word with him to tell him that he just isnt your type.
At your age, getting your friends to do your dirty work is ok.
2006-10-31 03:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant stop him from looking at you... and if you stop looking then u woundtn notice that he is staring at you. Dont feel bad is not your fault that you dont like him. Just dont encourage anything that might led him to believe that you do.
2006-10-31 03:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋