silsila bcas in our indian society if we break a marraige it will no be forgotten, best thing is to be careful before entering a wedlock and being strong while in love. Parents wil not make a right choice for you so in arranged marr be alert and involved so as not to repent later.Inspite of all this if we do happen to fall in wrong hands what to do? stigma and pain attached to walking out is more than staying in a wrong passionless marr. Incase breaking up can be done smoothly without hurting anyone then it is worth it.
why do we enter a wrong marriage in the first place bcas we lack patience we want to be in love and have company and flaunt as early as possible. Patience and care while we feel first wind of love is required wait and see if it lasts dont jump imm! classify it into liking/love/friendship/attraction/lonliness/symapathy/social pressure.Best way to decide is to ask urself will i take care of him/her if he/she cathes a infectious disease and will they do the same for u.
2006-10-31 03:01:38 · 4 answers · asked by friendly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
None ...
I guess both give wrong message ...
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Sameer
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2006-10-31 03:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know bored...... an equation in a marriage can change anytime and at any age. How much ever care you may take before you get married, there is always a chance that you or your spouse may think differently after a while. Silsila and Kank, both are based on similar problems.
so, what should a couple do when they fall out of love. I feel... life is very short and if there is a chance of finding love and happiness then one should go for it. But its easier said than done. what about children ??? In my opinion, a warring couple can never give children the love and security they need.
So, if things have reached a stage when there can be no reconciliation then separation is the best solution otherwise try n compromise a bit to let the relationship work.
2006-10-31 11:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
according 2 me ...silsila is better then kank
2006-11-01 01:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by vikas n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none.
would've said more but the length of your question is damn off putting!!
2006-11-02 14:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by lil.princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋