My step-sister 19yrs.old and I 31 yrs. old being having lovely relatinship between both us. She told me so many time to get her pregnant, but she will graduate from high school in may, so I am holding off to she gratuated the school.hopeful 9 months form May we will have our first child.
2006-10-31 02:55:21 · 24 answers · asked by JAMIE D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
To answer your question, yes, you CAN have a child, but shouldn't you get married first?
2006-10-31 02:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 18:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, she wants you to get her pregnant but not marry her? And you're 31 and considering this? Can someone tell me what's wrong with this picture?
At 31, you should know that you and your step-sister can date, have babies, get married or whatever, you don't have any blood ties that would stop you legally...morally that's another story, but if you are 31 and she's only 19 chances are (assumption) you all haven't lived under the same roof, so I don't really see a moral dilemma either.
My problem is that that if you have a "loving relationship" why would you not want to marry this girl, not just impregnate her?
2006-10-31 03:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the worst and most disturbing ideas I have ever heard. I am not sure where you are form, but in the good 'ol US of A we call that incest and it is frowned on. I know that you keep thinking "Well, we're not related", but in the eyes of society, you are. If my daughter and my husband's son had a child together, I would be livid! Let alone the fact that she is only 19 and you are 12 years older than her, your parents blended your families with the intention of having a family. When your parents became husband and wife you children became siblings. Back off. You are going to ruin multiple relationships within your family. DO NOT bring a baby into this situation. It's not fair.
2006-10-31 03:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since there is no blood relation, it is not illegal to have a child together. Three things concern me though. Are you in love? That is different from having a lovely relationship. It is difficult enough to raise a child in a committed relationship. Also, how does the family feel about this relationship and would they be happy or unhappy about the union and the future baby. Lastly, your age difference concerns me. You are a man with life experience and supposed maturity, she is still a teenager. Don't have a baby unless you plan to spend your lives together, hopefully married.
2006-10-31 03:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well......if there are no blood lines between you guys, then yes. But not if there are any blood lines. I don't understand though, why a 19 year old who is graduating from high school has no other plans except to get saddled down with a child before even growing up herself and seeing what the world and life has to offer her.
2006-10-31 03:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUDE. i hope this is a step sister u just met and not one u baby sat for growing up! because blood or no blood that's still incestuous if u 2 grew up together. if, however, your parents just married in the last couple of years and u 2 hit it off as a result, why the rush to knock her up? are u that lonely and desperate that u wanna get a chick pregnant just to tie her down? if u wanna be with her, be with her. but be the mature person and guide her first. get her to go to college and get an education and career b4 u try and tie her down with kids.
2006-10-31 03:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Be an adult. She is too young for you not to mention all the other complications of the fact you are family whether by marriage or blood. Get a grip, she is too young to have a child. Trust me had one at that age.
I mean honestly what do your married parents think of this relationship?
2006-10-31 03:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Hopey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well! If you're main goal is to split your family, then go ahead for it.
Virtue of normal people forbids such a relationship. Just imagine the confusion that your mom and dad will feel. I will not tell you that this type of relationship is wrong because it is not illegal and you're an adult. But morally, it is wrong and very inconsiderate to the rest of your family.
Life is about choices. and make habit of right choices...Get you someone else. Hey! been to Dallas lately? plenty of cowboys.
2006-10-31 03:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anita 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In someways I think that it is wrong. Remember you might not be blood but you are still brother and sister. There are many more people out there you don't have to look in your own back yard. But if you two love eachother then it doesn't matter what other people might think. All that matters is what you think!
2006-10-31 02:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. that's honorable that you are going to wait till your SISTER gets out of HIGHSCHOOL before you knock her up.
1st off she's your sister. period. 2nd she's 19. she has not lived through the golden period of her life and here you are planning to ruin it for her. what kind of F-ed up stories do you think that kid's going to be telling a therapist 20 years from now?
yes it is possible for you to have a child with your step sister.
for the sake of the child you shouldn't though.
2006-10-31 03:00:08 · answer #11 · answered by killer boot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋