I am a christian 14 year old that lives in whichita Kanas.There is a missonary girl that lives in mexico and we both like each other alot.we write to each other and sometimes IM too.her family comes up once a year for one day in july, and that is sunday.she usually comes over to our house without anyone else, to spend the afternoon betwen sevices,my sister has her over.and I need to know how to and what are the steps to hold her hand and kiss her.we are not allowed to go out on dates.(to young)(really really really really really like this girl!!!) what should I do.(she is 14 too)
2006-10-31 02:53:50 · 11 answers · asked by Isurehopeyouthinkimcool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a 14 year old, I respect that you are able to ask this question. Most young people don't think or even consider that maybe asking someone else a question could be helpful. I am a retired Social Worker who worked with youth over 23 years and I enjoyed every moment of it. As a 14 year old, you and her have time, I would say continue as you are and when the time is riight you will both know. When that happens the place will also work itself out. You are both young, give yourself that time and neither one of you shall regret it. I would like to let you know that I am very proud of you as a youth that you are willing to ask others. Good Work
2006-10-31 03:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think you guys are too young to get into physical things. SOmetimes girls at that age are not ready for anything physical and if you both are Christians,, i truly dont believe she is going to appreciate you coming at her like that. It would be best to be close friends.. liking each other but not pushing things.. you do not need to take any steps to hold her hand and kiss her.. those little things just happen at the right moment.. so dont tryt o take steps to it.. just let it happen.. that is the best when things just happen cause both of you felt it. Also think about this... if you push the issue and attemp something and she is not ready.. you might lose her completely.. go easy and slow down, there is no need to rush things.. she
ll come with it.
2006-10-31 11:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 14. You have your whole life ahead of you. If you like her, just enjoy being her friend and maybe holding her hand. If it's meant to be more than that.. then, it will all work out... dating in secret is never a good idea unless in the case of Romeo and Juliet... and look how that turned out. Take your time! You may even find a girl that's not so far away. Long distance relationships are hard. Take it from me! My boyfriend lives across the country.
2006-10-31 10:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by xretroflowerx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her take her on a walk and all you can do is just wait for her to give you a chance to then go for it(holding her hand). as far as kissing her goes you have to go a little slower. DON'T ask her if you can just talk to her really sweetly and tell her how you feel then get close to her and if she gets close to you to then if you thinks she wants it. give her a soft one.
GO BOYEEEE YEEEAAAAAHHHH
2006-10-31 10:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her like you said. then you've got to wait till you become an adult. love is an adult thing. chances are that you could mess up and miss it at your age. simply put " you are too young"
2006-10-31 11:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by dearson b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo is the best way to convey her what you u are upto ...
Boy do it before its too late
Regards
Sameer
http://sameer-shaikh.blogspot.com
2006-10-31 11:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you have your whole life to feel this way...she is not the only girl..trust me..just be friends and have fun for now...you are way too young for love.
2006-10-31 10:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just curious but if you are not allowed to date are you allowed to kiss?
2006-10-31 10:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by egg_sammash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound stupid but you can try to talk to her and hang around your sister when she is there. It works for me :-)
2006-10-31 10:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait some time. if its love then it'll show.
2006-10-31 10:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy_hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋