Okay im 16yrs old right? and me and this guy had been hooking up for awhile now and the other day he asked me out and i said yes! but my mom still thinks im her lil baby and i want to let her know that me and him are seing eatchother..but i dont know how to tell her can anybody give me advice?
2006-10-31 02:49:37 · 12 answers · asked by BabyG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Baby G
First: You should listen to your mom. That means you should talk to her about your friend, and you should arrange for him to meet her. And then it won't be a problem to get her agreement on SHORT meetings with him, say half an hour, or so. May be you could arrange that he visits you at home in presence of yr mom. Then everything will turn out to be much easier
2006-10-31 02:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
has she actually told you that you can't date? If not don't worry.
Tell her, (sit her down, at dinner ect) that to her 16 is very young but 16 is the age that most teens start dating and you've met a nice guy (tell her about him) who is interested in you and you would like to date him with her permission. Most parents will respect that you were adult enough to come to them and allow it unless there is some moral apostition to the guy. Depending on what 'a while' is you may or may not want to tell her you've already been seeing him. You could tell him that the two of you have been hanging out for 2 weeks or so.
Good luck be honest with her.
2006-10-31 02:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your Mother as soon as possible, it is never a good idea to keep secrets, also when you start to lie you will eventually get caught up in them because one lie leads to another. You have to trust your mothers judgement, she is only looking out for you. What do you mean by hooking up? Are you just talking or what, and you don't say how old he is. Sixteen is way too young to get serious about one person, have fun, date a lot of young boys, go to school dances and games with a bunch of friends, don't tie yourself down to one person too soon ok! Have fun, be honest with your Mother and don't hide things, she may surprise you, by appreciating the fact that you value her opinion, don't get angry at what she has to say, if you want to act like an adult be preparred to sit and listen like an adult, she won't treat you like a baby if you act like a mature young adult. I think you must know you are doing something wrong or something your Mom would not approve of or you would not have asked for advice. Don't wait and worry about what she thinks, talk with her now, keep those lines of communication open. Good luck.
2006-10-31 03:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should say "Mom I need to talk to you about something." Let's sit down. This would be the adult way and if you feel you are old enough then this should not be a problem for you to do. Tell her there is a boy or guy you like and he has asked you out. Tell her all about him. Listen to what she says. If in the end she says ok then slowly tell her you have already started to see him just a "little bit" to see if you "really" liked him enough to date him and then to see if it is ok with your Mom to continue this out in the open. Good luck...
2006-11-02 02:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dewy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her directly that he is your boyfriend. It's too abrupt and it may open the door for an argument. Just casually ask her if you can invite a friend over after school. Tell her he is just a new friend and you really enjoy his company.
Let her get used to the idea that you have a circle of friends that include both girls and guys, then she'll start catching on that you are growing up.
2006-10-31 02:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ayliann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if ur mom is quite friendly then its not a big deal. You just tell it to her and she will definitely understand you. But if ur mom is strict then tell her in a very nice way that this is the age to make a B.F and that u love him a lot. U tell her to trust u and say that u'll never do sth wrong, u'll never break her trust. Good Luck!! Naf :-)
2006-10-31 03:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by DrAmA QuEeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mothers understand that their children grow up....they just want to make sure the growing up happens slowly and "unfixable" mistakes aren't made in the process.
Start being more mature by coming forward and tell your mother about this guy.....you may be surprised.
2006-10-31 02:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly my suggestion to you is do no longer say something on your mom approximately her with the aid of fact its between your sister and your mom- do no longer become in touch in it with the aid of fact then your sis would be pissed at u. as long as your sister knows the thank you to shield it then she will tell your mom whilst shes waiting. She knows whilst its the proper time and he or she feels delicate.
2016-10-03 03:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell talk to her about what she thinks about you having a boyfriend. Then depending on what she saids to you. I think you should tell her. But if she thinks your not ready. Tell her anyway, she's bound to find out sooner or later. Hear her out on what she saids if she talks to you. If she doesn't want you to have on yet just tell her your just friends.
2006-10-31 02:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by emska8ter3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better to be honest than to toil with dishonesty and then have it bite you in the butt later... sit down with her and ask her if she will get mad if you tell her something personal... tell her that you want to be honest with her but you don't want her to get mad... in most cases, mothers just want to be there for their daughters and give them advice... and they want that more than they want to punish you for not doing things their way. ;-) Hope this helps!
2006-10-31 02:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by xretroflowerx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋