When I was a little girl I would make out with my best friend Gloria. Her mom caught us one day. Time went by I never thought about this again. In high school I started feeling like I was having crushes on girlfriends but never acted on them. I've always only dated men. I've never dated a woman and have never seen myself with one romantically. But I have slept with a couple of women and enjoyed it very much (and done everything). I have a boyfriend and over the weekend there was this super hot girl who was totally making eyes at me. It was turning me on. Does this make me bi? Or just bi curious? I've never labeled myself
2006-10-31 02:44:36 · 33 answers · asked by Mimi 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to say that I have had the same exact feelings. I think you have to ask yourself if your happy with your current relationship first. It may be that you are going through a stage, but since you have been feeling this way since a little girl, I would say your bi. If your younger than you may be experimenting, or maybe you just haven't found the right guy. I think you lean towards the more bi curious because it's fun and that is what your about right now...I mean why not right.
2006-10-31 05:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by sblvlokester 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why label yourself? Just go with the flow. I too have always been attracted to women and have had sex and relationships with them. I've also been married to a man and currently live with a man. Just becuase you are attracted to people rather than a gender group doesn't make you weird - in fact quite the opposite. I have always resisted being put into a group because i am not really happy with any of them. When I am in a relationship with a woman people assume I am a 'lesbian' and then are shocked when I start dating a man or say that I find one attractive. If you say you are bi then people thinks it's three in a bed every night at your place or that you can't commit to just one person.
Just keep on being happy with the person you are with and don't worry about what the rest of the world thinks of you - if they want to put a label on you that's their problem not yours!
2006-10-31 02:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are bi to me. When you say you have never seen yourself with a woman romantically you contridict your next sentence. If you have been with one and liked it, why cant you see yourself with one! Mabye you are trying to stay in the closet deep down for the many obvious reasons. Do you really even like men or what!! I dont think there is anything to be ashamed of, woman are beautiful and sensual. I am straight but I can see the attraction woman have towards woman. Not only are we beautiful but as they say woman and men come from two different planets!!
2006-10-31 02:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good that you haven't labeled your self and don't label your self in the future. Straight, Bi, or otherwise you are a person. Just decide what you want and go for it. If your desires change later it doesn't matter it just adds to the spice of life.
2006-10-31 02:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well LOLA I would say that you more than likely are bi. Especially if you still have an attraction for guys. Of course for me to give you a more deffinate answer you would have to get one of the girls that you're attracted too and come spend the weekend with me. That way you would know for sure. {:')~
2006-10-31 02:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by dirty bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You most definately have bisexual tendancies. You've been intimate with women in the past, and obviously haven't gotten it out of your system. Are you a virgin with your present boyfriend and does he know about your past relations with women? Some guys don't mind about stuff like that, actually, they can get off on the idea. :)
2006-10-31 02:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by tazmanean_devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably Bi...
Bi is good...
Why don't you & b/f have a 3some...
3somes with 2 women don't often damage relationships..
Make sure you are always the only one who has authority invite
women over for 3somes...You choose the women, you invite them.
2006-10-31 02:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definately sounds bi to me. My wife is very bi, and every now and then she just has to have a woman.
2006-10-31 02:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Todd V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't label yourself now, go with the flow, do what you feel comfortable with and be honest with your boyfriend, who cares what the sexual label is for who you are, as long as you are happy with who you are and no one is getting hurt, that's all that really matters.
2006-10-31 02:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Bindesh M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Labels are for the birds. You are how you feel. Be true to yourself. Don't try to ignore your feelings. If you like girl then do what makes you feel good.
2006-10-31 02:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by From the "ATL"! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋