2006-10-31 02:38:35 · 21 answers · asked by jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were probably smothering him with attention. Some guys like to be left alone. He may love you, but he loves not being with you more than he loves being with you.
2006-10-31 02:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Creston M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Despite what some of these other people might say, its not always about ex-sex. Most people dont get into relationships (key word there being 'relationship'... not one night stand) without having feelings for someone. Just because you break up with some one doesnt always mean you stop loving them. I had to let my ex go because we just werent compatable. We loved each other very much and almost got married, but we fought ALOT and when it got worse and worse I eventually had to cut it off. Today, still love her to death and would do anything for her... except stay in a relationship. Appreciate it for what it is, at least he didnt tell you to **** off and never talk to him again... ya know?
2006-10-31 02:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he has told you he wants to get back together with you, he may well still love you, and just not be ready for the kind of commitment you may need.
Ask him the question as you put it here, in a casual, friendly way, and see what happens. If he does really want you back, he'll cease the gap. If he doesn't then you get closure and can start mending your heart.
Good luck
2006-10-31 02:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time, dont have faith a word she says. It wasn't very effective of her to lie to you and that i'm sorry you are going to be positioned right into a concern which contain this. It sucks and that i'm hoping you get to feeling greater effective quickly. enable her bypass, she's no longer worth a while. you will come across a girl who's ordinary and treats you greater effective.
2016-12-16 17:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by chappie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have odd mixed up times. Try to get him to talk more about how he felt when he broke up with you and what he wants to do next. If he wants to be your b/f again tell him you'll think it over as you don't want it to happen all over again. Ask him to convince you that he means it this time.
2006-10-31 02:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly im a guy and sometimes guiys are afriad to be alone some times and also they still going to have feeling for you no matter what. just talk face to face show each others feelings
2006-10-31 02:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Michael R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really could be any of these things. need to know more about the situation and teh man involved. what do you think? do you love him? can he make you happy? do you think there's a chance you will get back together? do you think he loves you or is just messing you about? trust your intuition on this one. good luck x
2006-10-31 21:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys always say that just to keep u calmed until u finally just stop talking..i had a boyfriend and he broke up with me and of course he said he still loved me and that it wasnt me it was him....just cut it off with him completly. hes just playing games with u
2006-10-31 02:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanted you to taste the "sting" of a break up w/ him in hopes of compelling you to try harder, chase after him.
2006-10-31 02:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like his ego is kicking in. Like he doesnt really want you but he doesnt want anyone else to have you. A game only a loser would play.
2006-10-31 02:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by dirty bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋