Mature Women!!!! what was your reason for cheating on your man??

Question

was it worth it?
did you do it often?
did you do the same things you do on your man

Answer 1

He wasnt giving me what i needed and someone else wanted to.

Answer 2

Personally, I do'nt cheat! When I feel a desire for someone else I let the person whom I am involved with know, and make sure that person knows that it is over. Although I do'nt cheat I know that women cheat for various reasons.
1. Lack of emotional connection; your partner is not in tune with your emotional needs. i.e. telling her you love her, telling her she is beautiful and holding her.
2. Physical atrraction for someone else; Like men some women are visually led to go astray.
3. The other man was wealthier, whether it be a better car, house, clothes, jewlery , etc.
4. She really did'nt care; she might have used you as a rebound, or just a companion until she found what she really wanted.
5. She wanted to end it, but was'nt women enough to do so.
6. It was just a mistake

Was it worh it? Well, that depends on the reason why they cheated in the first place. For example, if it was a mistake opposed it probably was not worth it, but if it was because the other man had more then it just might have been worth it to her.

Was it done often? I'd have to say if you found out on your own and she never told you and you never felt like she was holding something from you, she probably never had intentions on telling you, which is an indication that it was done quite often.

Was the same things done to the other man? More than likely she did! If she did it to you, well, . . . . . . . . . . . .

Answer 3

Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I have never cheated in him and have never had a disire to do so. Now before I was with him I was in a relationship with my childrens father for 10 years, Him I did cheat on, he was abusive towards me and I was afraid to leave because of the sake of my children, I would cheat because I wanted to feel like someone actually cared about me but in the end I felt worse for doing so regardless of the situation because its just wrong. He also cheated on me and would lie and Id always find out. Finaly I just left the situation and God sent me a great guy and there is no reason for me to go elswhere.

Answer 4

I have never cheated on my husband since our marriage BUT when we were engaged, I DID sleep with a co-worker for about four months of our engagement. The reason was, honestly, that my co-worker was WILD and SO HOT in the sack that I couldn't resist it. I just couldn't give him up. I know that is not right but it is the truth. I did end it before the marriage and have been faithful since then. Was it worth it? WELL...I did confess to my husband AFTER the marriage and he throws it in my face sometimes but I still have my HOT memories.

Answer 5

I would never cheat on my man! Honestly I don't feel as if there is another guy in the world that could do more for me than he does!

Answer 6

Uh uh buhbuh - a lady never tells. Who would do that and tell? Strange little man, strange.....

Methinks you are looking for a little more than what the reason was judging from your detail...

Well, I'm certainly not giving you fuel for your little fire dearie... take care..and good luck darling.

Answer 7

that question is an oxymoron. Mature women wouldn't cheat on their men... or at least, they shouldn't.

Answer 8

as far as i was concerned we had broken up, but he thaught we were still together, yes it was worth it it gave him the message we wernt together.

Answer 9

cause he was cheating too

Answer 10

on the previous post, why are you confused then??