i'm a type of guy that would never backs out from a fight nor let someone make a fool of myself i love to be the "alpha" in any group im in. my problem is when im alone i tend to write a lot of love poems, love quotes, listen to love songs (except from boy bands i ******* hate them!!) and sometimes watching romantic films. is there something wrong with me or wut? no stupid anwers pls. thank you!
2006-10-31 02:32:44 · 29 answers · asked by evertroland 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you. for answering my question to many best answers i cant decide which to pick.. ill let the community decide which is the best anwer. again guys ty!
2006-11-02 03:01:11 · update #1
hahaha! some guys find me to be gay.. o well.. i think your just jealous cause i have everything when it comes to emotions.. i bet ur telling ur self " i wish i can write love poems and listen to love songs like that guy" you know instead wasting your money on beer ,smoke and drugs. just buy a pen and paper and start practicing writing love poems.
2006-11-02 03:10:56 · update #2
Nope.. nothing is wrong with u.. i tink u are what we call a S.N.A.G= Sensitive new age guy...
Its kinda sexy actually.. Every girls fantasy to have a SNAG for a boyfriend.. :-)
2006-10-31 02:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by Belle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things you mention are not mutually exclusive. Why can't you be the "alpha" and be in love with love? There is everything right in being a romantic, which is what it sounds like you are at heart. Embrace both parts of your personality and find a way to integrate them!
Or perhaps the alpha part of you is a facade? What is inside you which drives you to be the alpha? Why do you need to be dominant? In the moments when you are alone and all is quiet, do you find more satisfaction in remembering that you are the alpha or in getting just the right wording in the love poem you're working on?
Explore both and figure out which one is closer to the true you. If they both fit you, then why worry?
2006-10-31 02:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Prince of Pomp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are an emotionally driven person. You feel the either the rush, anger, or pride in fighting, and you equally feel the softness, passion, and depth of romance.
Being an emotional person is not a bad thing. I'm emotionally driven, I make alot of my decisions based on how I feel. We are also the kind of people that can be moody and change our minds often but that's not bad.
The arts are a good thing to get into - writing, painting, photography, cooking, animation, etc.
You might have some undiscovered talent and eventually as you get older and stop fighting, the arts are a good way to release that energy, then again so is lifting weights.
2006-10-31 02:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evert no you are a Dominate with loving feelings your strong but has a heart of gold what girl wouldnt want a strong type with romantic tendecys cuddling up on a sofa watching casablanca or key largo or any old romantic movies sounds great writing love poems and quotes just shows you are a loving person soft heart gosh wish i could find one like you and love songs are the best nope nothing wrong with you at all...dustylynne
2006-10-31 02:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by little_outlaw_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It is good to have a balance of manliness and compassion. You stand up for yourself, and are a protector. But at the end of the day you can write a peom about it- that is a great way to express your feelings. Let the ladies know this, they will surely love the fact that you can protect them and watch chick flicks, whats better than that?!
2006-10-31 02:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong. Most guys have a sensitive side ( you are afterall human, right?), they just usually don't show it unless they feel safe. I'm a girl and I won't cry in front of anyone. But when I'm alone a stupid movie like Officer and a Gentlmen will get the waterworks going. Not to worry, you're OK.
2006-10-31 02:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Lynda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! There's nothing wrong with u, u r okay! U seem to be extremely interesting as u write love poems, i think thats really good coz i also write love poems. People and all my friends say that i'm in love when i write love poems but thats wrong because my hobby is writing poems and i love to write love poems even though i'm not in love. I think we r quite similar. U just dont care about what people say. Be happy!! Naf :-)
2006-10-31 02:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by DrAmA QuEeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey - I used to have Alpha tendencies (I hate that classification) when I was a teen, but then I grew up and realised that fighting was for idiots and professional boxers.
I listen to love songs, watch romantic or sad films and even cry.
Nobody that knows me could ever accuse me of being less than a man.
Don't fret.
2006-10-31 02:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with you. You are perfectly fine, don't worry about it. It is alright for the alpha male to listen to love poetry, quotes, songs, etc.
2006-10-31 02:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by supernerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, nobody can make a fool of you-you are totally responsible for that.
Alpha male? Such a joke. Real men find sensitivity and love as things they can freely admit. Fighting is so stupid and serves no purpose.
Let your true self out-you will be happier and stronger for it.
2006-10-31 02:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by gagam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋