What are the chances? My girlfriend never gives up and sometimes I am mean, but for some reason we are still together. I am her first real boyfriend. I am kind of scared that if we last longer and further on down the road that she may want to date other people. What do you think? She is absolutely crazy about me. Sometimes I am mean just to see if she will break up with me and she is always like "Let's not fight, I will never break up with me you have my entire heart forever, you are absolutely perfect to me." Anyone had a similar situation? What was the outcome? I am just doing a lot of thinking lately.... Thanks For Your Time....
2006-10-31 02:22:30 · 6 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's 16 and I'm 17....
2006-10-31 02:23:25 · update #1
I got married when I was 17 and husband was 19 and we've been married for 3 wonderful years. It is really hard getting married young... I would do it all over again, but some people can't handle it. A lot of people change from when they're teenagers so you never know how it may turnout. It sounds like if you're trying to see if she'll break up with you that you kind of want to break up. Maybe you should just take a break and if neither of you like it, get back together. Hope that helps...
2006-10-31 02:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Leasweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did. We started dating when I was 17,married at 19, first child at 21, second child at 23 and divorced at 25. It was rough and really dumb. I was just too young and much like your girlfriend, I never seriously dated anyone else before him. After a few years, I began to wonder about the things I missed and then everything just started falling apart. We reconciled after the divorce, but it was just not meant to be. If you are having your doubts already, it is best to cut loose. You still have a ton of living to do - I am now 27 and thouroughly enjoying life. Good luck in whatever you decide to do!
I could also add that there were three couples that I hung around with in high school that were sweethearts...and we are all divorced....9 years later.
2006-10-31 02:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my high school boyfriend. We started dating when we were 15 and got married when we were 21. We've been married for 2 1/2 years now and we have a 14 month old son. I wouldn't have done it any other way. But I can tell you that if your having doubts then you should think long and hard before making any permanent decisions. I think you have a while before you need to think about marriage. It sounds like you guys have a lot of growing up to do first. Your mean to her purposely to see what reaction you'll get outta her. This is very silly. Also, she needs to gain some self respect because she lets you treat her like crap. It could work out but you have to want it to. Right now it doesn't sound like you do.
2006-10-31 02:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im married to my high school sweet heart. We got together when i was 16 and he was 17. Well im 22 and hes 23 now, and we are still together and happy. It takes work just like any other relationship but it can work if you both want it to. Ive been with him for 6 and a half years now, and its great.
2006-10-31 03:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by kissedwithpeace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my high school sweetheart and had my ONLY child with him. I divorced him when my son was one. Now my son is 17 years old. The high school romances RARELY lead to permanent relationships (But...you never know...). I wish you and your lovely girlfriend the best.
2006-10-31 02:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by mychemicalromancelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋